It's generally a good sign when a topic called The Apology is best summed up by "good feelings at first, followed quickly by a sharp spike of vitriol."
I realise we have a sacred cow of needed to correlate every ban with an equally compelling action that prompted it, but to be honest, this is an internet forum. It is generally made for fun and lols. Lets keep this in perspective when we are trying to accommodate the majority of people's personal space versus the right of anyone to call everyone selections from the untoward word variables of our collective profane dictionaries.
tc;dr: This topic could be improved by everyone holding hands, and forgiving each other. Or being doused in gasoline and lit on fire so we don't have to go through this whole friggin' shebang for 10 pages of everyone just making each other feel worse. Really.
I tend to expect the latter will be used, but then again, try optimism, settle for pessimism.
Edit: The middle of my post seems to have nothing to do with anything else in it... >_>;