This definitely a potential route ending level, depending on what you've done to prep. The strategy you have to use will depend on what characters and builds you are using. I still haven't gotten past the level, but I'm pretty sure my next run is going to be successful.
Several questions/points:
Classic or Casual?
NG or NG+?
Why Edelgard as a Warrior, rather than as a Fortress Knight or her unique classes? As a Fortress Knight with a shield and throwing axe, Edelgard can stand on a boat bridge and just tank hits as long as you are supporting her between rounds with Physic.
Why Byleth as a Hero rather than his unique class?
Caspar as a Grappler is going to be rough, because he can't tank for shit.
Does Dorothea have Meteor yet?
Do you have the +1 Spell Range or +2 Spell Range (Lorenz' paralogue) artifacts?
How good is your Authority, generally?
Do you have the higher tier Sprint battalion? (Gautier Knights, I believe, from Sylvain's paralogue)
Do you have Gambit that lets your units take a lethal hit without dying?
Do you have Warp with anybody?
Are you using the non-damage combat arts, like Reposition? Reposition on your horse units can be a total game changer.
Obviously, the key to the battle is to kill the 3 reinforcement guardians + Nader as soon as possible. Turtle in the lower left until you've killed the first wave from the both the town and the boats. Then either split your part and push both left and right at the same time, or ball into the fort or ball towards the right while just supporting your rear. Coming from the town is Melee, Horses, and Archers, while the boats while spew bow riders and wyverns. The boat reinforcements will stop once you board the boats, while the town waves you will have to worry about Same Turn Reinforcements. Meteor can land some free kills from afar to shut down reinforcements, while throwing a Meteor at Nader from outside of his range will turn him into aggressive mode, even if the hit itself misses.
Warp is super risky due to the extreme enemy density that can build up at the top of the map.