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One week ago, I broke with a girl after one year of relationship. But the reason why it happened was not because of some love triangle or messed up moment but it was because this girl was emotionally unstable with herself and I ultimately got emotionally and physiologically tired. At first she was fine and didn't show any sign of depression or anything, but then, over the course of the months, she started to depend too much on me to feel better. Like, she tried to find anything so I could compliment her more than needed. Somehow she suddenly got mad because I didn't do anything else with a drawing that she gave me than having it framed in my desktop, I even made the effort to find a beautiful frame for it! She got really angry after I told her that I have Dyscalculia and I tend to forget any kind of number related thing, like if I invented that as an excuse and to be fair, the condition is barely known but you can't just get angry because you don't know about something! Before the breakup, she was smiling and doing things that she barely did because of her previous mood and opinion about herself, but I was lacking energy, the same energy that people would use to recognize me... She absorbed all of my happiness, all of my shine! So after talking with my parents (because they noticed this lack of energy too) and thinking about myself, I decided to end the relationship. She had to understand that she can't depend on a person to be happy and I can't drain myself to make another person happy. Sadly, she would not understand because of her behavior, so the only solution was to end it. After the day I told her everything, I put everything that reminded me of her in a box and I just greet her without any grudge or anything like that. Now I feel more like myself again, with energy that everyone likes to see and that I enjoy to have. Hell, I even started to draw and practice voices again (Something that she was so ashamed of) like old times! I even don't feel scared of not answering the phone messages because that person gets desperate and feels like I'm not paying attention. Did you ever got into something like this? :o

So,this is a quick poll,I jsut want to know what you guys think. I myself,would prefer end-game relationships/mid-game,if we have a second gen,but I also think that your characters should be able to romance most characters,not all,but most. :) You can expand upon what you chose if you like,have a good day!