I think it is reasonable to ask people to change their perception on other people or reality.
However, is it reasonable to demand others to change their perception of individuals or reality?
Under what circumstances would it be acceptable to demand someone to change?
Can they properly change their view on something, if they were forced to, even if their questions about legetimacy were not answered?
Do you need a framework to give them a hand in trying to understand someone else's reality?
What if they already had the same framework you have given them, but they reject it because they think that there is something fundamentally wrong with the conception of the framework, because it does not answer all the questions one might have?
What if they presented that framework to you, but you reject it, because it is an opposition to your framework and you have something to disagree with it, too?
Can you live with people who have a fundamentally different perception of reality and individuals than you? and if so, would it mean you don't talk about the edge cases, in which your perceptions clash? would you accept a temporary conflict if it meant a chance of resolving your problem?
What would be the point, in which you think, that you need to part with someone permanently, because of the clash of your perceptions?
what do you think?
is it reasonable?