Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Okay. So you know when you know someone, but you don't really know them THAT well and they kind of interest you, and you're intrigued by them, but it's not really an actual crush because you don't know the person that well and you want to GET to know them and it feels like a crush but you're still kind of wary so it's not ACTUALLY a crush but you're just kind of curious about them? And they kind of hit a button that triggers some serious emotional response out of you because someone - i.e. me - has a stupid hero complex and it's probably just a joke but honestly, said someone - i.e. me - takes things too seriously anyway? ... Yeah. I - I'm kind of experiencing this. And I want it to GO AWAY so badly. Seriously, what do I do? I'm kind of in mini-panic mode. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junk Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Okay. So you know when you know someone, but you don't really know them THAT well and they kind of interest you, and you're intrigued by them, but it's not really an actual crush because you don't know the person that well and you want to GET to know them and it feels like a crush but you're still kind of wary so it's not ACTUALLY a crush but you're just kind of curious about them? And they kind of hit a button that triggers some serious emotional response out of you because someone - i.e. me - has a stupid hero complex and it's probably just a joke but honestly, said someone - i.e. me - takes things too seriously anyway? ... Yeah. I - I'm kind of experiencing this. And I want it to GO AWAY so badly. Seriously, what do I do? I'm kind of in mini-panic mode. i don't know much about it but maybe try to get to know him more? Maybe you will gradually get comfortable with him as time goes on, you could maybe just become friends? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 i don't know much about it but maybe try to get to know him more? Maybe you will gradually get comfortable with him as time goes on, you could maybe just become friends? That's what I'd like... I WANT to just be friends with him. It's just I get these stupid little fluttery feelings and I really, really wish they'd vanish before I end up falling for him or something... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camilla Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Put a love letter in his shoe locker asking him to meet you after school at sunset on the school roof. Too lazy to find anime gif of said scene Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 Put a love letter in his shoe locker asking him to meet you after school at sunset on the school roof. Too lazy to find anime gif of said scene Pfft. Easier said than done. XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DodgeDusk Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 (edited) I sort of went through a similar phase a year ago or so. It's not the best (or possibly viable) advice but I just toughed it out and eventually my mini-crush went. Mind you I'm not good friends with this girl (I never was) but at least I don't feel anything for her any more What I'm saying is that time just eventually took my feelings for her and buggered off somewhere, but I'm not complaining Edited October 17, 2013 by DodgeDusk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 So just... wait it out and hope it goes away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randoman Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 All I can really say is try talking to them and beng friends with them, then see where it takes you. Don't take things too quickly into the girlfriend-boyfriend phase, though. I did that a lot and I lost quite a few friendships because of that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DodgeDusk Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 (edited) It's odd to explain. I liked her but knew it was never a possibility due to age difference. That and I'm one of the most boring people you'll ever meet. Those two things, as well as time, eventually took the feelings away so waiting worked for me... I only said it wasn't viable advice because I'm inexperienced with this kind of stuff. Time could do the complete opposite also and you might end up liking this person even more, so it's a double edged sword really Sorry I shouldn't have posted here I'm just blabbing on about stuff that's more than likely nonsense Edited October 17, 2013 by DodgeDusk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 It's odd to explain. I liked her but knew it was never a possibility due to age difference. That and I'm one of the most boring people you'll ever meet. Those two things, as well as time, eventually took the feelings away so waiting worked for me... I only said it wasn't viable advice because I'm inexperienced with this kind of stuff. Time could do the complete opposite also and you might end up liking this person even more, so it's a double edged sword really Sorry I shouldn't have posted here I'm just blabbing on about stuff that's more than likely nonsense Oh... good point... hmm. Oh, please... if you think you're boring, you haven't met me. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluedoom Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Oh cool at least i can relate to this. :-) just wait it out really. The more you try to fight off something the harder it bites you in the ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renne Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Ignore the feelings and just talk to him as friends. Build a friendship first and then let time decide if you do develop feelings for him or not. If something does, maybe he'll like you back. If not, then at least you got to know him. Your feelings may change, for better or for worse, when you know him more. I actually experienced the same thing as you and I ended up liking him more, but that may not happen to you. And wait, do I sorta know him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 Ignore the feelings and just talk to him as friends. Build a friendship first and then let time decide if you do develop feelings for him or not. If something does, maybe he'll like you back. If not, then at least you got to know him. Your feelings may change, for better or for worse, when you know him more. I actually experienced the same thing as you and I ended up liking him more, but that may not happen to you. And wait, do I sorta know him? Okay... that sounds reasonable... Y-Yes... y-you probably do... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caster Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Hmm? I'm sure you'll be fine Vash. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangerine Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 The only way to stop liking them is murder. Nothing helps deter you from wanting to be in their heart like seeing what is actually in their heart. My advice is to buy some surgical gloves and a knife of your choice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 The only way to stop liking them is murder. Nothing helps deter you from wanting to be in their heart like seeing what is actually in their heart. My advice is to buy some surgical gloves and a knife of your choice. What? N-No! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangerine Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Fine, I'll do it for you. I'll send you the pics. brb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renne Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 The only way to stop liking them is murder. Nothing helps deter you from wanting to be in their heart like seeing what is actually in their heart. My advice is to buy some surgical gloves and a knife of your choice. I support this advice too. OR you could nom their heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Serrated knives work very well at rending flesh in a painful manner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Interest Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Okay. So you know when you know someone, but you don't really know them THAT well and they kind of interest you, and you're intrigued by them, but it's not really an actual crush because you don't know the person that well and you want to GET to know them and it feels like a crush but you're still kind of wary so it's not ACTUALLY a crush but you're just kind of curious about them? And they kind of hit a button that triggers some serious emotional response out of you because someone - i.e. me - has a stupid hero complex and it's probably just a joke but honestly, said someone - i.e. me - takes things too seriously an ... Yeah. I - I'm kind of experiencing this. And I want it to GO AWAY so badly. Seriously, what do I do? I'm kind of in mini-panic mode. So you know when you know someone, but you don't really know them THAT well and they kind of interest you, and you're intrigued by them, Uh oh. *hides* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caster Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Stabby stabby. No commitments please big sis :c Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 Uh oh. *hides* N-No, it's not you...! Fine, I'll do it for you. I'll send you the pics. brb ... Wha...? I support this advice too. OR you could nom their heart. Wha...? Serrated knives work very well at rending flesh in a painful manner. ... ... I - I d-don't even... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renne Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 Wha...? You heard me! Nom their heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangerine Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 The zombie apocalypse isn't going to start itself any time soon. It's up to you to get the ball rolling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted October 17, 2013 Author Share Posted October 17, 2013 Stabby stabby. No commitments please big sis :c Wait, what do you mean by that? The zombie apocalypse isn't going to start itself any time soon. It's up to you to get the ball rolling. B-But I'm not prepared for the zombie apocalypse...! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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