Excellen Browning Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 (edited) Me rambling to Paperblade on MSN. Kadoom says: Have you been in love? Kadoom says: And if so, how does it feel? The reason I asked is I've never been in love before Kadoom says: I've had some short term relationships, but I burnt all of those down within a month Kadoom says: And today I went out with a girl, and when IU went to go on the train we just kissed I wanted to kiss her and I was planning to (yes I was fucking nervous) Kadoom says: And apparently she had the same plans(so it wasn't rape or molestation or whatever) Kadoom says: But it now makes me wonder am I in love with her? do I like her? or do I just want to fuck her? (like all those other girls) Kadoom says: it really really troubles me, man I thought I was a deviant for having such thoughts Give me your opinions and advice. Even the shitty ones. Edited July 29, 2011 by Excelkitty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Fuck her, if you still wanna stay with her, then you love her. If you dont, you wanted to fuck her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Fuck her, if you still wanna stay with her, then you love her. If you dont, you wanted to fuck her. Wow, you really do think with your crotch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted July 28, 2011 Author Share Posted July 28, 2011 Fuck her, if you still wanna stay with her, then you love her. If you dont, you wanted to fuck her. It's really neither of those. I don't particularly want to be with her, but I can stand her presence far better than anyone else's. Basically if I am with a person for 3 or so hours I get bored of them and don't want to see them anymore for a while. So today I spent about 8 hours with her, and I'm really not annoyed but I also feel no need to see her again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 No offense but, you should be able to tell how you feel. If you don't feel anything, you don't. It's as easy as that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 Wow, you really do think with your crotch. No. Not really. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted July 28, 2011 Share Posted July 28, 2011 I'm sorry, I didn't know your name was Kai. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 (edited) No offense but, you should be able to tell how you feel. If you don't feel anything, you don't. It's as easy as that. Its a thread in FFTF u nub It's really neither of those. I don't particularly want to be with her, but I can stand her presence far better than anyone else's. Basically if I am with a person for 3 or so hours I get bored of them and don't want to see them anymore for a while. So today I spent about 8 hours with her, and I'm really not annoyed but I also feel no need to see her again. yeah what soul said, you prolly dont feel anything about her, you think you do, thats whats prolly tearing you apart. Edited July 29, 2011 by Black Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 No offense but, you should be able to tell how you feel. If you don't feel anything, you don't. It's as easy as that. Herp whatifidontunderstandwhatifeel derp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 yeah what soul said, you prolly dont feel anything about her, you think you do, thats whats prolly tearing you apart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Nah. Thinking I don't care for her and having to tell her that is what's hard on me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 yeah what soul said, you prolly dont feel anything about her, you think you do, thats whats prolly tearing you apart. I didn't EXACTLY say that. It's harsh. Dx Poor Excellen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Nah. Thinking I don't care for her and having to tell her that is what's hard on me. then show that you care? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emeraldfox Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 How did Soul get a Leonardo badge. I mean, give her a gift. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momo Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 quit thinking so much about it and just do what you want. not every relationship has to involve true love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eclipse Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Try hanging around her for a long period of time for several more days. If you find that you don't mind seeing her again and again. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raven Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 You probably should have kissed her to start. Go out with her again and kiss her as soon as you see her, explaining that was for last time, or something. Being nervous will only drag you down, you've got to try to push that aside and do what you want to do, without raping her. There's only one way to find out if something like this will work, and that's trying it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Espinosa Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Sexual attraction is also a part of a romantic relationship, there's nothing to be ashamed of there. A relationship might go nowhere if that's the only motivation though. If the pair isn't taking responsibility or willing to sacrifice something (and sadly, these things won't work without a consensus from both sides), it won't last long. Nervousness is a good sign you have feelings for the girl, unless that anxiety comes from general shyness or fear of rejection (which is a problem of self-worth and not romance). Try to communicate a lot, make your interest clear, as you can't learn if you're compatible unless you develop your connection together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Just hang with her. And don't think about what you're gonna say, just talk. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted July 29, 2011 Author Share Posted July 29, 2011 Just hang with her. And don't think about what you're gonna say, just talk. I WAS NERVOUS ABOUT THE KISSING PART. NOTHING ELSE. KISSING HER AND NOT HER NOT ACCEPTING IT WOULD HAVE BEEN AWKWARD. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 (edited) I WAS NERVOUS ABOUT THE KISSING PART. NOTHING ELSE. KISSING HER AND NOT HER NOT ACCEPTING IT WOULD HAVE BEEN AWKWARD. so you did that shit? Edited July 29, 2011 by Fenrir Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kintenbo Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 From the sounds of it, you perhaps need to look at yourself and your interaction with people. Perhaps think of ways to overcome your relatively short tolerance of interacting with people. Ask yourself what makes other people so boring. Ask yourself what you can do to make interaction more interesting. Let's face it, dating and love is far more than "oh hey, you're hot", "oh, you're hot, too". If you take a relationship at only "face" (pun intended) value, it probably won't be a long lasting one. All and all, what you do with her is up to you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Sexual attraction is also a part of a romantic relationship, there's nothing to be ashamed of there. A relationship might go nowhere if that's the only motivation though. If the pair isn't taking responsibility or willing to sacrifice something (and sadly, these things won't work without a consensus from both sides), it won't last long. Nervousness is a good sign you have feelings for the girl, unless that anxiety comes from general shyness or fear of rejection (which is a problem of self-worth and not romance). Try to communicate a lot, make your interest clear, as you can't learn if you're compatible unless you develop your connection together. ok 8[ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted July 29, 2011 Share Posted July 29, 2011 Try hanging around her for a long period of time for several more days. If you find that you don't mind seeing her again and again. . . Don't you think that lvoe can involve anxiety and anxiety can involve stress, which means you can "mind" seeing someone you love? Egh, I get what you mean, that's just my gut reaction. Just hang with her. And don't think about what you're gonna say, just talk. NEVER GONNA GET A GIRL! YES! Wait, should that have been a DOH! But really, I was really happy when you said that Fenrir. Because it means you'll never be born into this world, monster. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted July 30, 2011 Share Posted July 30, 2011 NEVER GONNA GET A GIRL! YES! Wait, should that have been a DOH! But really, I was really happy when you said that Fenrir. Because it means you'll never be born into this world, monster. LOKI YOU BASTARD! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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