Nobody Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 There's nothing worst than being around a lot of people I don't know. There's nothing worst than crowded elevators full of neighbors I never talked to (and I don't intend to). Seriously, if I believed in hell I'm sure it would be a crowded and really hot elevator full of neighbors and the devil himself, stuck on the 5th floor forever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pride Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 But you'd get to know them eventually, what with that eternity together. Then you wouldn't be in hell because you're socially awkward, but because you'd have gone through the cycle of human relations wherein you dont know someone and dont like them then get to know them and start to like them then become friends and be cool and then have known each other way too long because eternity and just hate each other l'enfer c'est les autres, no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Camilla Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 I hate crowds and strangers too. It never fails to feel really intimidating and/or overwhelming. ._. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robinigo Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Agreed, hell is just a bunch of hot and girls crowding you in an elevator, stroking you slowly... /Straight Gynephobia is a dick, I can never express my feelings. Introverted-ness sucks too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix Wright Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 set small goals for yourself. little victories. maybe the next stranger you see, smile at them and make eye-contact. yu don't have to do that all day, just that one person. maybe after that, the next stranger you meet, where having a conversation won't be totally weird, you can start asking some questions yourself. strike a conversation up. or, if that's too much, set up little goals that'll help you get to this point. because playing the victim and never trying to solve the problem won't solve the problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Espinosa Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 Hell is others. Nobody's forcing you to socialise with any of these people. Half of my neighbours don't even respond to my greetings (but I continue greeting everyone anyway because I can't be arsed to remember which ones react and which don't), which may have something to do with me having to choose a language to greet them in, which I sometimes get wrong, I guess. Point is, you're not obliged to show interest in complete strangers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted August 23, 2013 Share Posted August 23, 2013 it's ok, dude, everybody's a little awkward I mean it's not like you have to be a social butterfly and get to know EVERYONE personally if social stuff is important to you, then start by setting small goals like greeting the next person you meet or striking up some quick chit-chat with a cashier at a grocery store or something it's very easy if you set your mind at ease and take those small steps towards being less socially awkward Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 i could be around a lot of people i do know and still be just as much as an awkward idiot as always lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Djeets Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 I never talk to much strangers unless i'm on good mood... strangely, i'm more confident with strangers sometimes because we don't know each other, just try to show a smile (be it fake or not) to everyone you eye contacted, you'll draw a nice aura to the society around there, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momentai~ Posted August 24, 2013 Share Posted August 24, 2013 no, you're nobody omg your avi is so adorableeeeeeeeeeeeeeee *hugs it forever* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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