#!/dev/haru Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 (edited) It just makes me uncomfortable, geez. I'm not necessarily disavowing you of that, but it's kind of silly to judge someone on that and it's something you should probably get into the habit of relaxing yourself about. Sorry, too much real talk? Edited April 27, 2015 by Utsuho Reiuji Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Draco Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 Based on whether or not they are wearing sexualized clothing. If they are, they don't leave a good first impression. i don't think most people do that irl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 i don't think most people do that irl Hell, if I could pull it off I totes would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 Utusho, can I have the source to your Avi rn? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 Oh gods why. Utsuho is a cool character and all (and a really fun boss) but... Why is this even an issue, anyway? If it makes me uncomfortable, it makes me uncomfortable... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted April 27, 2015 Share Posted April 27, 2015 You make me feel uncomfortable, so I have a bad impression of you now HA BETTER THINK TWICE NOW ABOUT MAKING ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE AGAIN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 I try not to, really I'm not perfect so certain thoughts based on social conditioning do happen but then I think to myself "nope loomi das bad" Unless they literally broadcast prejudice and bigotry on their clothes or something then I'm gonna judge away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Oh gods why. Utsuho is a cool character and all (and a really fun boss) but... Why is this even an issue, anyway? If it makes me uncomfortable, it makes me uncomfortable... If you want the real talk, here's the real talk. It's not an issue unless you make it one, or in other words, it's your choice to be offended by their choices. It reflects rather poorly on you if you'd judge someone based on their dress choices, especially since it's something that's so... well, irrelevant. Harmless. It hurts no one. If you'd judge someone on something that they do of their own volition that doesn't hurt you or anyone else, that's entirely on you. It's not wrong to feel uncomfortable. That's human. That's fine. However, I recommend you do your absolute best to work through it, because I think it's a legitimate personal flaw if you're letting it affect your opinion of people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki Laufeyson Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Based on whether or not they are wearing sexualized clothing. If they are, they don't leave a good first impression. It just makes me uncomfortable, geez. Human bodies make you uncomfortable? Woe betide you, small one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Human bodies make you uncomfortable? Woe betide you, small one. I want to point out that this isn't necessarily the point I'm making and you shouldn't feel threatened by my comments, lest I be misinterpreted and my attempt to help fall flat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 If you want the real talk, here's the real talk. It's not an issue unless you make it one, or in other words, it's your choice to be offended by their choices. It reflects rather poorly on you if you'd judge someone based on their dress choices, especially since it's something that's so... well, irrelevant. Harmless. It hurts no one. If you'd judge someone on something that they do of their own volition that doesn't hurt you or anyone else, that's entirely on you. It's not wrong to feel uncomfortable. That's human. That's fine. However, I recommend you do your absolute best to work through it, because I think it's a legitimate personal flaw if you're letting it affect your opinion of people. It's mainly an issue with first impressions I get. If I speak to them and they're nice, I can look past it. The topic title says "When you look at someone" implying first impressions based on appearance. And if it's a first impression that's making me uncomfortable, it's not a very good one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 It's mainly an issue with first impressions I get. If I speak to them and they're nice, I can look past it. The topic title says "When you look at someone" implying first impressions based on appearance. And if it's a first impression that's making me uncomfortable, it's not a very good one. Alright, then let's analyze this. What about sexualized clothing actually makes you feel like someone is going to be problematic? What makes it worthy of judgment? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki Laufeyson Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 I want to point out that this isn't necessarily the point I'm making and you shouldn't feel threatened by my comments, lest I be misinterpreted and my attempt to help fall flat. Kinda feel like adults in today's society should have moved past this by now. Alas, earwax, eh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Integrity Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 what point are you even trying to make with unironic reaction gifs here utsuho is legitimately trying to help and you're just undermining her, lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Kinda feel like adults in today's society should have moved past this by now. Alas, earwax, eh? Everyone is merely a combination of their genetics and their upbringing and experiences. No one is, at the end of the day, responsible for simply not having the mindset or the perspective to understand that it's a thing to be moved past. But that's why we're here to share these things instead of attacking each other for them, no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki Laufeyson Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Everyone is merely a combination of their genetics and their upbringing and experiences. No one is, at the end of the day, responsible for simply not having the mindset or the perspective to understand that it's a thing to be moved past. But that's why we're here to share these things instead of attacking each other for them, no? I tend to blame upbringing and a desire to not evolve as a human being for such things. Especially in adulthood. It brings me to another point: Why so many twenty-somethings so...well....act like teenagers. Im not sure i get that. Just something i noticed. Adolescence is lasting a helluva lot longer than it has (and should). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Integrity Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 florina, you act like a teenager. i'm not even fronting here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki Laufeyson Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 florina, you act like a teenager. i'm not even fronting here. So do you. My point is, why is it so common? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Draco Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 (edited) w-whoa Lack of desire to grow up, I guess? Nothin' wrong with having a little fun every now and then. ...it is weird when it's almost constant though Edited April 28, 2015 by Dracocoa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 (edited) I tend to blame upbringing and a desire to not evolve as a human being for such things. Especially in adulthood. It brings me to another point: Why so many twenty-somethings so...well....act like teenagers. Im not sure i get that. Just something i noticed. Adolescence is lasting a helluva lot longer than it has (and should). You're missing my point entirely. Adolescence means a different thing to different people. You can't blame someone for not growing up as if your meaning of 'growing up' is the tried-and-true definition, because you still sure as hell have flaws that they may well have gotten over in the same way that they have flaws that you did. It's not worth identifying as a thing, simply a waste of time and a good way to marginalize someone so that it's all that much harder for them to improve. Edited April 28, 2015 by Utsuho Reiuji Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Integrity Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 So do you. My point is, why is it so common? i don't know, why do you do it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 Alright, then let's analyze this. What about sexualized clothing actually makes you feel like someone is going to be problematic? What makes it worthy of judgment?It kinda makes me worry about lifestyle, ya know? I guess when I see it I think that they're, well, you know... Like they're dressing like that for, um, I can't really think of a nice way to put this... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Integrity Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Draco Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 (edited) As if they were prostitutes? Is that what you mea-oh integ ninja'd me Edited April 28, 2015 by Dracocoa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
#!/dev/haru Posted April 28, 2015 Share Posted April 28, 2015 It kinda makes me worry about lifestyle, ya know? I guess when I see it I think that they're, well, you know... Like they're dressing like that for, um, I can't really think of a nice way to put this... What if they enjoy it, and other people enjoy it, and it contributes to the overall well-being and self-confidence of those people? And, honestly, what about a particularly sexualized lifestyle is so worrying? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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