Here's how I play:
-However I want, whenever I want.
Sometimes, I want the hardest challenge I can give myself. Completed a megaman speed run, a level 11 Final Fantasy 1 game, and Hardcore Expert Terraria.
Other times, I enjoy the zen of grinding. Level 99, all classes mastered in chapter 1 of Final Fantasy Tactics is a thing I've done several times.
Other times, I like turning on IDDQD and steamrolling.
People are not one dimensional anime tropes like Miriel, Subaki, or fanfiction.net's opinion of how gay relationships work.
You like grisly wound on Camilla? That's cool. I don't. C'est la vie.
You wanna brag about beating Lunatic with only 50 hours spent in Boo Camp, Museum, and Ghostly Gold? That's cool. Remember, nobody liked it when you bragged about having a charizard in eighth grade, either. In this scenario, you're only giving people a handlebar to smack you with.
You think Lottery, Mess Hall, and random unit drops are cheating? That's fine. PETA also thinks eating any processed meat is tantamount to baby murder. Voicing a negative opinion of people who use those features will only cause them to ignore you like those westboro baptist people.
Remember the late great George Carlin's final commandment, and apply it here.
"Keep thy religion to thyself"