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Sånıc Bÿm

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  1. I realize I'm really late in responding to this particular message, but I feel it has to be said. Personally, I feel it is a poor attitude to view women (or, well, any person) as something to be "won". And maybe that's one problem with society and finding a boyfriend or girlfriend in general. Some people view potential significant others as something to be "won", and when you view someone as something to be won then it's hard to say whether you respect them as a person. Respect and love are not "won," they are earned.

    I like to think of romantic relationships as partnerships between equals, and not as some sort of "ownership" or "possession" or whatever.

    EDIT #over 9000: I'm having a really hard time conveying my thoughts, and this is coming from someone who is a native English speaker. What I'm trying to say is that when people are in a romantic relationship with each other, I don't see it as them "owning" or "belonging to" each other, but rather, I see them as partners or co-collaborators in a romantic endeavor.

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