Vashiane Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 i was afraid of that answer but aghgh how long is she gonna stay mad at me and her argh Y-You... um. Okay. You can't calm anyone without being calm yourself. Take a deep breath. Focus on what you want to say, and think of how to word it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Would it amuse you more to know that because of your stuttering I read this as: "Ah... B-But still... I am so aroused right now..." >//////////////////< W-What. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 you walk away until they're calm This man knows if practices like these go on too long all of us will, eventually just not give a fuck Yes So what if I like _____ How is that worse than _____ And in fact, what if I told you it isn't actually bad at all i was afraid of that answer but aghgh how long is she gonna stay mad at me and her argh First you wait for her to calm down a bit Then you make your move Or we can use the power of imaginationLet's not do like Rey, please Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marthur Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 It's okay if you want to be Rey's battleship, Vashiane. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 >//////////////////< W-What. A secret revealed It's okay if you want to be Rey's battleship, Vashiane.We already know she wants to, so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lux Aeterna Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 (edited) Y-You... um. Okay. You can't calm anyone without being calm yourself. Take a deep breath. Focus on what you want to say, and think of how to word it. I'm pretty chill myself. Too happy about what happened to be all too bothered. But at the same time, she removed me and the other involved party from Skype and Twitter, ergo we can't reach her. I suppose I can't blame her for being upset although I'd rather be yelled at for hours rather than get the passive-aggressive silent treatment. >//////////////////< W-What. Hey I dunno you that well yet. You could be that kind of person. First you wait for her to calm down a bit Then you make your move I have to get around the fact that she has me blocked everywhere first, but I don't want to have someone else asking her to do it for me. Edited December 4, 2013 by Lux Aeterna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Let's not do like Rey, please I said imagination, not getting married to fictional characters in your dreams Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Oh please The therapist can help you But ultimately, you're the one who can cure yourself I know that, I really do... It's up to me to even move forward in the wheel of change... No one can force me to do anything. Psychologists/therapists can't help if I don't help myself. I know that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I have to get around the fact that she has me blocked everywhere first, but I don't want to have someone else asking her to do it for me.Sounds like you were too late Just give her the finger and move on I said imagination, not getting married to fictional characters in your dreamsokay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Envoy of the Beginning Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Sounds like you were too late Just give her the finger and move on Lux is too meek to give a girl the finger, remember Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 It's okay if you want to be Rey's battleship, Vashiane. W... What. A secret revealed We already know she wants to, so W-What...? W-WHAT, NO! I'm pretty chill myself. Too happy about what happened to be all too bothered. But at the same time, she removed me and the other involved party from Skype and Twitter, ergo we can't reach her. I suppose I can't blame her for being upset although I'd rather be yelled at for hours rather than get the passive-aggressive silent treatment. Hey I dunno you that well yet. You could be that kind of person. Then you make your move I have to get around the fact that she has me blocked everywhere first, but I don't want to have someone else asking her to do it for me. Ah... I see. So the person in question is so bothered they apparently don't wish to speak to you, whereas you're trying to communicate with that. That is a... difficult situation. W-Well, I - I'm not? I - I don't... believe so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Naughty Vashi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I know that, I really do... It's up to me to even move forward in the wheel of change... No one can force me to do anything. Psychologists/therapists can't help if I don't help myself. I know that...You'll need to act based on that knowledge Lux is too meek to give a girl the finger, rememberYep Naughty VashiYep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 You'll need to act based on that knowledge I know... ;_; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lux Aeterna Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 (edited) Sounds like you were too late Just give her the finger and move on I don't want to do that since I almost feel I owe her an apology. Context being: Yesterday I started dating someone (Hannah). But not too long ago--three to four weeks maybe, she was with someone else. Thing is Hannah wasn't into that relationship for a long time and was just clinging onto it for the other's (Cordelia's) sake. So she broke it off with her eventually and things ended amicably because Hannah made it sound to her like it was okay. To her credit they were acting friendly. But Cordelia feels betrayed by us both--I mean, at the time I was just friends with Hannah and kind of waiting it out and seeing what would happen. I didn't act on my feelings because I'm not that much of a dick. But I was closer to her than Cordelia was even when were friends. And she probably sees me as partially responsible for the relationship ending. And lying to her. And she probably feels even moreso sold out by Hannah, given the circumstances--to her it probably retroactively subverted all they had since entering this relationship was similar to acknowledging that, no, Hannah wasn't that into the relationship with Cordelia for a while. Poor communication kills! People, and friendships apparently. This is, of course, the only thing I feel bad for. I'm glad for the relationship itself. Just not whatever state it's put this person in. Ah... I see. So the person in question is so bothered they apparently don't wish to speak to you, whereas you're trying to communicate with that. That is a... difficult situation. W-Well, I - I'm not? I - I don't... believe so. Hopefully she'll be more willing to speak as time passes. Heheh yeah I didn't figure you were, I was just poking fun at you. Edited December 4, 2013 by Lux Aeterna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lux Aeterna Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 someone just called my life an otome game where the girl was the heroine and i was the supporting character i'm not sure what to even say to that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Naughty Vashi Ohmygosh, no. You'll need to act based on that knowledge Yep Yep Noooo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marthur Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 someone just called my life an otome game where the girl was the heroine and i was the supporting character i'm not sure what to even say to that But we did it 3 years ago. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I don't want to do that since I almost feel I owe her an apology. Context being: Yesterday I started dating someone (Hannah). But not too long ago--three to four weeks maybe, she was with someone else. Thing is Hannah wasn't into that relationship for a long time and was just clinging onto it for the other's (Cordelia's) sake. So she broke it off with her eventually and things ended amicably because Hannah made it sound to her like it was okay. To her credit they were acting friendly. But Cordelia feels betrayed by us both--I mean, at the time I was just friends with Hannah and kind of waiting it out and seeing what would happen. I didn't act on my feelings because I'm not that much of a dick. But I was closer to her than Cordelia was even when were friends. And she probably sees me as partially responsible for the relationship ending. And lying to her. And she probably feels even moreso sold out by Hannah, given the circumstances--to her it probably retroactively subverted all they had since entering this relationship was similar to acknowledging that, no, Hannah wasn't that into the relationship with Cordelia for a while. Poor communication kills! People, and friendships apparently. This is, of course, the only thing I feel bad for. I'm glad for the relationship itself. Just not whatever state it's put this person in. Hopefully she'll be more willing to speak as time passes. Heheh yeah I didn't figure you were, I was just poking fun at you. So you're dating a friend's ex. Absolutely disgusting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 *pats Lux Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 So you're dating a friend's ex. Absolutely disgusting. What rule was that one? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bindi Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 Goood mooor- frick I mean Gooooood afternoooooon~ The weather is...warm? WHAT IS THIS Don't pester Vashie. >:c Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vashiane Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 I don't want to do that since I almost feel I owe her an apology. Context being: Yesterday I started dating someone (Hannah). But not too long ago--three to four weeks maybe, she was with someone else. Thing is Hannah wasn't into that relationship for a long time and was just clinging onto it for the other's (Cordelia's) sake. So she broke it off with her eventually and things ended amicably because Hannah made it sound to her like it was okay. To her credit they were acting friendly. But Cordelia feels betrayed by us both--I mean, at the time I was just friends with Hannah and kind of waiting it out and seeing what would happen. I didn't act on my feelings because I'm not that much of a dick. But I was closer to her than Cordelia was even when were friends. And she probably sees me as partially responsible for the relationship ending. And lying to her. And she probably feels even moreso sold out by Hannah, given the circumstances--to her it probably retroactively subverted all they had since entering this relationship was similar to acknowledging that, no, Hannah wasn't that into the relationship with Cordelia for a while. Poor communication kills! People, and friendships apparently. This is, of course, the only thing I feel bad for. I'm glad for the relationship itself. Just not whatever state it's put this person in. Hopefully she'll be more willing to speak as time passes. Heheh yeah I didn't figure you were, I was just poking fun at you. I... I see. Time heals most wounds, maybe it'll be the same for this person. C-Course... I should REALLY be used to this by now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lux Aeterna Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 (edited) But we did it 3 years ago. And I'm sure back then I went ballistic over it. So you're dating a friend's ex. Absolutely disgusting. I was friends with her ex long before I knew her. At best I would call us acquaintances. We weren't that close. I still feel bad, of course, but no, we weren't friends. Call it as you like, I guess. [Redacted for being stupid] Edited December 4, 2013 by Lux Aeterna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted December 4, 2013 Share Posted December 4, 2013 What rule was that one?I dunno Didn't know they were numbered Goood mooor- frick I mean Gooooood afternoooooon~ The weather is...warm? WHAT IS THIS Don't pester Vashie. >:c Should we pester you instead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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