Awakening: Lon'qu (<3<3), Inigo, Priam. Mostly Lon'qu though. Like, 99% of the time... Lon'qu. Going as MaMu, I married Lissa once... but Cherche is my ultimate girl. I wish they added her to the same-sex hack for Awakening because I don't much care for the other lesbian options tbh.
Fates: As a girl, I have planned Laslow, Kaden, and Kaze for now. If that changes... I'll see. For a guy... honestly? Scarlet in Birthright, Beruka in Conquest, Oboro in IK.