James Bond Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 It's okay, not your fault I am just very bad at picking I guess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Lets just say whenever I was interested in someone, either she was already in a relationship, or either she was just not interested... I had quite a few very bad experiences, also my current situation is the same ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 ...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 dot dot dot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Makaze Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Lets just say whenever I was interested in someone, either she was already in a relationship, or either she was just not interested... I had quite a few very bad experiences, also my current situation is the same What have you done to let them know that you are interested? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 What have you done to let them know that you are interested? At first I did nothing, because it was too obvious they were uninterested. There were a few times I confessed, but apparently I did it the wrong way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 (edited) what did you do I found being straightforward about it works the best even if I utterly suck at talking I also usually drag them aside to a more private area so they (or me, for that matters) don't feel the pressure of public view Edited May 22, 2014 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 what did you do What everyone does, go out with them, trying to get to know them better, but apparently I was a bit too nice with them or maybe too much(don't ask me what I mean by that I don't know how women think either)... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 (edited) Women think like people every one of us is different take it slow man and be natural don't go out of your way about it that's uncomfortable Edited May 22, 2014 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 ... dot dot dotStop that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowofchaos Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 i don't get the leg joke Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Wait what your mom forces you into relationships That's awful yes she kinda verbally beats me up too, or guilt trip it it is so very bad :< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 I found being straightforward about it works the best even if I utterly suck at talking That is the truth and I agree, My first relationship started like that and it lasted 4 months Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 yes she kinda verbally beats me up too, or guilt trip it it is so very bad :< Sounds awful //pat That is the truth and I agree, My first relationship started like that and it lasted 4 months Yeah I mean pretty good for first relationship, shit doesn't work out sadly, alas, fact of life I just see breakups these days as "ah well we wouldn't be compatible anyway, time to find someone moreso" since they could be a great person but utterly incompatible in terms of relationships and it just happens, oh well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Makaze Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 What everyone does, go out with them, trying to get to know them better, but apparently I was a bit too nice with them or maybe too much(don't ask me what I mean by that I don't know how women think either)... If you came off as scared of rejection, that does come off as unattractive to most people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sock Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 sounds like a codec issue to me Apparently it's fixed now. Changed Adobe's settings to have hardware acceleration disabled. Don't ask why I never bothered googling the issue before... I don't know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Envoy of the Beginning Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 I have never been in a relationship and I likely never will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 Yeah I mean pretty good for first relationship, shit doesn't work out sadly, alas, fact of life I just see breakups these days as "ah well we wouldn't be compatible anyway, time to find someone moreso" since they could be a great person but utterly incompatible in terms of relationships and it just happens, oh well Also, the less people from your common environment know about it the better, I mean if no one knows that you are interested in someone then better keep it like this, it can get very embarrassing, especially when some people don't know when to keep their mouths shut. If you came off as scared of rejection, that does come off as unattractive to most people. Unfortunately, I came to realise that the hard way and through many trials. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 I have never been in a relationship and I likely never will. ^ most likely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 (edited) Yeah most people I'm friends with IRL don't know about my current situation (it's complicated) My wife knows because she's my wife and we have no secrets and she was kind enough to wingwoman for me though But nobody in me and the guy I'm into's common circle knows atm until we sort out the complication @wrt people who don't think they'll be in relationships do you speak on a level of lack of attraction, interest, or lack of confidence if you aren't interested in one that's entirely fine but if you're speaking from a lack of confidence but want one it doesn't hurt to build some confidence Edited May 22, 2014 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Envoy of the Beginning Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 I have no interest. Plus, someone as horrible as me in a relationship? Are you crazy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 I don't want to seek a romantic relationship anymore because of my own .... depression issues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 (edited) [redacted, fuck you buttons] Edited May 22, 2014 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 (edited) makes sense I have no interest. Plus, someone as horrible as me in a relationship? Are you crazy fair enough that bit sounds like low confidence though confidence isn't just good for relationships yaknow Edited May 22, 2014 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted May 22, 2014 Share Posted May 22, 2014 @wrt people who don't think they'll be in relationships do you speak on a level of lack of attraction, interest, or lack of confidence if you aren't interested in one that's entirely fine but if you're speaking from a lack of confidence but want one it doesn't hurt to build some confidence I'm perfectly attractable, but I've no interest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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