TheEnd Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Oh loli'm gonna use that euphemism It was quite some time since I got so much into a game... Bad thing is this game somehow is dark and it doesn't have a specific story... Then again that is not actually bad because you can do anything! why ps3 and not pc, though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 why ps3 and not pc, thoughSorry, I just don't feel like playing on my pc nowadays...In general I prefer consoles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Envoy of the Beginning Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Sorry, I just don't feel like playing on my pc nowadays... In general I prefer consoles. Sask has downgraded How do you feel about this, OldMan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NTG Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 i'm gonna use that euphemismsoothe me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marthur Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Warning: Wall of text. Ignore if you want. Hello thread, I am seeking sagely advice. Mostly from the Old Man. [spoiler=Wall of Text] My parents are Asian. That has a lot of implications. I am a sheltered "kid" that is an only child. A "kid" that is 23 years old. There are two sides pulling on me at the moment. 1) Me and Belinda being a magnet for each other and me wanting to get there ASAP. 2) Parents wanting for me to stay until after the New Year (Unacceptable due to anniversary being on said New Year) At the very least, my dad is okay with it even if I go like NOW. He was okay with it ever since I figured out a way around the cost of insurance (via my Youtube channel). But he always says "think about your mom". That it's cruel for her. Anyways, the following are the costs (plus the shipping of my stuff which I've calculated) to move over there: [spoiler=October] [spoiler=November] [spoiler=December] These are ONE WAY tickets. Like fudge, those are expensive on November and December. From what I understand, I am being selfish about wanting to go in a month. That it isn't plenty of notice. I am not denying it is selfish. I have always respected my parents wishes. I have always held myself back and listen to their advice for major life choices. And I know they don't want me to get hurt. But even so, I want to fall flat on my face by myself if it has to happen for this decision. I want to make my decisions myself. I find it ironic that my mother, who was the mother that let me trip in the middle of the aisle in church on a wedding (while everyone gasped) just sat there and let me get up myself and even stomped on the floor blaming it for "tripping me", is the one that won't let me make mistakes. Am I wrong in being a "rebel" for once and wanting to make my own decisions without wanting their input? I'm going to side with your mother because someone has to. But more seriously, this reads more like an appeal for approval rather than advice. I don't think anyone here is qualified to give you good advice because nobody here knows the whole situation. Since your most decisive argument in here is the anniversary (Money is also an issue, but I'm sure your parents would agree to pay the difference if you decide to stay a bit longer.), I think you should just consult with Bindi and ask her if she's fine with you missing it just this time. Depending on her answer, you can make your own decision without some third party's input, just like you said you should. Also this isn't about right or wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowofchaos Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 anyway, you aren't necessarily wrong for not following their input but not wanting it is almost like admitting you know you're doing something wrong ...I didn't mean to phrase it that way. It's mostly because I have ALWAYS RELIED ON THEM... FOR EVERYTHING, and making a decision by myself is a little scary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) Sorry, I just don't feel like playing on my pc nowadays... In general I prefer consoles. but the pc version is objectively superior as in more content Sask has downgraded How do you feel about this, OldMan it's a severe case of casualitis soothe mej-jenni Edited September 16, 2014 by OldMan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) Sask has downgraded How do you feel about this, OldMan Quiet you Edited September 16, 2014 by James Bond Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 sask why =( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowofchaos Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) Money is also an issue, but I'm sure your parents would agree to pay the difference if you decide to stay a bit longer. This is actually not the case. But... I guess Marthur is right. It's more approval than advice. Edited September 16, 2014 by shadowofchaos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) ...I didn't mean to phrase it that way. It's mostly because I have ALWAYS RELIED ON THEM... FOR EVERYTHING, and making a decision by myself is a little scary. if you had watched logh, you'd already know that's what children do and it's okay for them to do so you'll have plenty of opportunities to make decisions all by yourself when you move out, you know This is actually not the case. But... I guess Marthur is right. It's more approval than advice. good kohai Edited September 16, 2014 by OldMan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Depression... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Depression...oh no sask's heart is unsoothed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Bond Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Don't worry I don't need someone to soothe it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NTG Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 but what are the flight prices for Jan, Feb, March-- /shot If you really want to go, try and convince your mom then :o And I assume you'll have support from Bindi's family when you move down there? I was going to say you could just visit home regularly but damn those prices Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Depression...:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowofchaos Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 And I assume you'll have support from Bindi's family when you move down there? THEY ARE CLEARING FURNITURE FOR ME ALREADY. Her mom is set on me being there in October. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marthur Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 This is actually not the case.Did you ask them? I'd think it should be acceptable for them to sacrifice a hundred bucks if you're going to make some sacrifices as well. but what are the flight prices for Jan, Feb, March-- /shot If you really want to go, try and convince your mom then :o And I assume you'll have support from Bindi's family when you move down there? I was going to say you could just visit home regularly but damn those prices Flight prices are mostly rising for the christmas season, so I expect them to drop in February. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bindi Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 but what are the flight prices for Jan, Feb, March-- /shot If you really want to go, try and convince your mom then :o And I assume you'll have support from Bindi's family when you move down there? I was going to say you could just visit home regularly but damn those prices Of course he'd have support from my family- he'd be living with us until he gets on his feet. Normally, I'd think that would be too much to ask for but- it was my Dad's idea. My parents really do love him, and both think him living here with up and looking for a job (and having time to know that's for sure that he wants to commit to living here) would be easier than having a job over there, saving up, and then trying to find both a another job an an apartment here. So.. yeah. It's a thing, I guess _(：3 」∠ )_ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) Of course he'd have support from my family- he'd be living with us until he gets on his feet. Normally, I'd think that would be too much to ask for but- it was my Dad's idea. My parents really do love him, and both think him living here with up and looking for a job (and having time to know that's for sure that he wants to commit to living here) would be easier than having a job over there, saving up, and then trying to find both a another job an an apartment here. So.. yeah. It's a thing, I guess _(：3 」∠ )_ a family-wide keikaku "i like you, come to my house and marry my daughter" Edited September 16, 2014 by OldMan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Depression...You can overcome it, Saskules. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowofchaos Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 "i like you, come to my house and marry my daughter" That is pretty much quoted from her mother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 (edited) why is "German" censored Edited September 16, 2014 by Blagi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 That is pretty much quoted from her mother.ohko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NTG Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 THAT IS SO SWEET Rey's mom: "they're stealing my son!" have both your parents met each other at all? have Rey's parents met Bindi? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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