ZemZem Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Oh my. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 what are you doingWhat's it look like I'm doing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Then what should we do, do you know? And this is a legit question because I don't really know what we should do to deal with her when she gets like that. I don't think ignoring her entirely is going to make her any happier (it'd probably make her feel worse) but I don't think it's good to let her just get away with treating people in such a way because that's unfair to her victims, but outright criticizing her isn't going to help either because then she'd start to feel like the victim and wouldn't get any better and (as what happened) just run away. Trying to deal with depressed people who lash out all the time is one of the most difficult things to do, it's the major reason I don't come here as much anymore because I just need a break from it all because there are quite a few depressed people here... and I have absolutely no clue how to help and I just start stressing myself over this stuff and can't do anything about it I think I'm just too sensitiiiiiive It's okay Fre, I honestly believe if anyone here could do it, it'd be done already. The people who still try to help, try the best they can to clearly no avail. The way I see it... It's a two way street; Those who help and those who want to be helped. Since it takes two to tango, there should be a willingness from both sides in order to achieve the desired results. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 It's not everyday a ZM comes back to this thread how are ya, man? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 (edited) Oh my. Look what you came back to. Long time no see man, how goes? Edited January 15, 2015 by Soledai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HK Motendra Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Getting off that.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HK Motendra Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 It's okay Fre, I honestly believe if anyone here could do it, it'd be done already. The people who still try to help, try the best they can to clearly no avail. The way I see it... It's a two way street; Those who help and those who want to be helped. Since it takes two to tango, there should be a willingness from both sides in order to achieve the desired results. Sol gets it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZemZem Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 It's not everyday a ZM comes back to this thread how are ya, man? I'm remembered~ Could be better, but not bad. You? Look what you came back to. Long time no see man, how goes? FE14 > FE13 is what I'm thinking. XD I'm okay, okay. How about you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Interest Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 (edited) oh? I'm about 65% done with editing now. i sure do hope i don't find people here picking on sophia again and interest stop blindly defending shirley just because you have a crush on her It appears you have missed the point entirely, but other people responded with the rationale so I don't have to (thanks guys). Edit: Actually I'll say anyways. Sophie was resorting to personal attacks, and that is what I was criticizing. Edited January 15, 2015 by Interest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roy: Marquess of Pherae Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 There's no cure, but the best way we can make things easier ourselves is to take the hits and still care for her. Not just out of respect, but because it will strengthen her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fengaridotdll Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 FE14 > FE13 is what I'm thinking. XD Yeah, I love the more Japanese design and stuff Weaboo mode activated! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 The one with the long brown hair.pic? <_< What's it look like I'm doing?mean :< It's okay Fre, I honestly believe if anyone here could do it, it'd be done already. The people who still try to help, try the best they can to clearly no avail. The way I see it... It's a two way street; Those who help and those who want to be helped. Since it takes two to tango, there should be a willingness from both sides in order to achieve the desired results. ah you get it~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 I'm remembered~ Could be better, but not bad. You? I'm doing alright besides finding a problem you saw first hand on LtPW at least Glac isn't here >~> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nobody Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Then what should we do, do you know? And this is a legit question because I don't really know what we should do to deal with her when she gets like that. I don't think ignoring her entirely is going to make her any happier (it'd probably make her feel worse) but I don't think it's good to let her just get away with treating people in such a way because that's unfair to her victims, but outright criticizing her isn't going to help either because then she'd start to feel like the victim and wouldn't get any better and (as what happened) just run away. Trying to deal with depressed people who lash out all the time is one of the most difficult things to do, it's the major reason I don't come here as much anymore because I just need a break from it all because there are quite a few depressed people here... and I have absolutely no clue how to help and I just start stressing myself over this stuff and can't do anything about it I think I'm just too sensitiiiiiive Well, I'd think ignoring the rants would be the best thing to do, but it's all over now... And you're probably right not buying your loss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 It's okay Fre, I honestly believe if anyone here could do it, it'd be done already. The people who still try to help, try the best they can to clearly no avail. The way I see it... It's a two way street; Those who help and those who want to be helped. Since it takes two to tango, there should be a willingness from both sides in order to achieve the desired results. This is why you are the smartest person in this thread, old man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 mean :<Yes :> *puts the veil on Shirley's head and leaves* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZemZem Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Yeah, I love the more Japanese design and stuff Weaboo mode activated! Mmhmm. I'm doing alright besides finding a problem you saw first hand on LtPW at least Glac isn't here >~> Hehe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Yes :> *puts the veil on Shirley's head and leaves* weird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 oh hey I saw my name in a skype quote on one page (ღ☌ᴗ☌ღ) i'm famous You and HK have good themes. Hey Letty. FE14 > FE13 is what I'm thinking. XD I'm okay, okay. How about you? lol, you can take just one look and be like: wow, it is immediately better. I'm doing well, I can safely say I've had a good day today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 The actual event had nothing to do with Shirley. um no it kinda did i also like how starman conveniently didn't really do anything about the posts picking on sophia, though. now i already talked to sophia about what she did wrong (listening to shirley and getting upset by it instead of ignoring her) but this better not happen again cause well i'll know i'm talking to everyone in here whether they're listening or not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junk Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Good to see you posting here ZM Yeah fe 14 is a definite must buy. Also hoping to snag a new 3ds as well. A bundle would be the best outcome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fengaridotdll Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 um no it kinda did i also like how starman conveniently didn't really do anything about the posts picking on sophia, though. now i already talked to sophia about what she did wrong (listening to shirley and getting upset by it instead of ignoring her) but this better not happen again cause well i'll know i'm talking to everyone in here whether they're listening or not Who is your avi supposed to be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Oh nice DaS2 has twinblades Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ZemZem Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 That's good, Sol. ^^ BTW, IM me on Skype from time to time. Hoshi come back to bed...I'm cold... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted January 15, 2015 Share Posted January 15, 2015 Hehe. >n> It's ok Shirley is doing Glac's job for the mean time >~> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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