Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Well I decided to pop in to see how things were going. I'm showing up less and less it seems, not really a bad thing though. Anyways, just wanted to say a little bit here before I take my leave. I've been really busy and spending a lot of time doing other things. Recently Kayla's family has been acting like a bunch of children towards the poor girl, and today her mother made her cry by telling her that she isn't going to get into college, and that she's selfish, lazy, and never does anything, when all of which couldn't be farther from the truth. Her little brother literally does nothing around the house but watch television while she does all the chores, I've seen it myself. She also has made plans to attend college with me when she graduates, and has even been told by her counselors that they would accept her no doubt. I know it sounds crazy, because people think, "how can you know her better than her parents," well to them I say they don't know the situation, and I can honestly say I do. I have talked to her about our decision, and we agreed she's either going to leave when she's 18 or after she gets through her junior year. My counselor and lawyer (yes I talked to a lawyer, I always do in legal situations) said that if she left at 17, even though the legal age to leave your parents is 18 in this state, very little action will be taken. The reason for this is because by the time court is set up, then she'll be 18 already so it won't matter. Secondly all I have to do is prove she's being taken care of, and is safe, which let's put it this way, I am getting us our own place to stay over the Summer, and I'll have plenty of help from my sister. Her step father has no real pull on going to get her, as if he does, he knows she can turn him in for all the drugs he keeps in the house among other things he's done. Really I'm amazed at how such a wonderful girl like her can turn out so well in such a situation, but Kayla really has good morals and values, and is intelligent and caring. All that aside, needless to say I've been swamped, and really stressed out more than just for the usual reasons. I decided that since I more than likely won't be staying here too much longer that I'd just lay down the answers to some questions a lot of you may have had. 1. No I'm not democratic, or liberal, I'm independent. I don't identify with specific parties, although I will say the democratic side is giving out more things I support than the republican, but that changes all the time. 2. Yes, I do laugh at stuff, I'm not serious 100% and never laugh. I just don't laugh at repetitive jokes. 3. I'm male. Yes, shocking I know, but I'm actually transgender, which is not to be confused with transexual. Transgender means that I cross dress, have a female mindset, have a feminine personality, and refer to myself as "she," or "her," and tell people to do the same. It's strange to hear about, and people judge me a lot, but I really don't care. If you're someone who hates people for something like that or pokes fun at them for it, then you're pathetic. Also for all of you out there that are so "sure," that I was female, and said it was, "obvious," well sorry to say you were wrong. 4. Yes, my girlfriend knows about it. She supports it, and as expected says my gender doesn't affect who I am, even if I should change my gender. 5. Yes, I am a tad bi-sexual, but I'd never have sex with a male, simply because the thought of penis does not turn me on. I will snuggle and kiss some that I find really attractive or pretty though. None recently though, not since I started dating Kayla. I'm a very loyal mate. 6. No, I haven't lied about anything while I was here. I can promise that. 7. Yes Bizz knew about most of this the entire time. 8. I'm not here to be a killjoy. Bottom line. So yeah, now you all know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Hero Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 It seems like everyone on this forum knows everyone else. I feel out of the loop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Rabbit Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 All I can say is kudos for coming out. And I hope you and your girlfriend get on okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 It seems like everyone on this forum knows everyone else. I feel out of the loop. All about reputation really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kintenbo Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 So my dreams of you being a girl that swims in pie is ruined? I'm going to go emo now! *cut, cut, slice, slice* Ok, emo moment gone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Altera the Hun Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 3. I'm male. Yes, shocking I know, but I'm actually transgender, which is not to be confused with transexual. Transgender means that I cross dress, have a female mindset, have a feminine personality, and refer to myself as "she," or "her," and tell people to do the same. It's strange to hear about, and people judge me a lot, but I really don't care. If you're someone who hates people for something like that or pokes fun at them for it, then you're pathetic. Also for all of you out there that are so "sure," that I was female, and said it was, "obvious," well sorry to say you were wrong. Well... Damnit. Um... Nope, speechless. Crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightmare Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 3. I'm male. Called it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 I guess the lesson learned here to a lot of people is to not assume. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Rabbit Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 (edited) So my dreams of you being a girl that swims in pie is ruined? I'm going to go emo now! *cut, cut, slice, slice*Ok, emo moment gone. Cynthia-san, this is what happens when you aren't clear about your gender. :3 Assumptions are natural when you don't know the whole truth. Edited January 15, 2009 by Metal Arc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 Called it. I recall you were the one who asked if I was transgender? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Judge Judy Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I guess the lesson learned here to a lot of people is to not assume. I must stop then =/ Consider all the other possibilities... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 No girls in the internet, indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 Cynthia-san, this is what happens when you aren't clear about your gender. :3 I was never required to in the first place. That's more of what happens when people assume, although he's being sarcastic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Rabbit Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I was never required to in the first place. That's more of what happens when people assume, although he's being sarcastic. He is? :o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kintenbo Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 (edited) Cynthia-san, this is what happens when you aren't clear about your gender. :3Assumptions are natural when you don't know the whole truth. Now that I think about it, I have never seen much girls even play in a giant pie, unless if you count "What Would You Do?", and its Pie Slide. That probably is what gave me a foot fetish to begin with. Point is, Nickelodeon affects what fetish you gets when you grow up. That's my theory. Edited January 15, 2009 by Kintenbo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Rabbit Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Wait a damn minute... I dunno if I wanna keep calling you Cynthia if you're not female. What should I call you (before I make up a stupid nickname)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Fun fact: Vincent is a male. Always said he was. However, he usually uses female avatar/sigs, as you guys know. As a result, he got hit on by some heterosexual males every now and then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 Yeah to be honest I know a LOT of people are going to treat me differently now that I've revealed this information, which I expected. I even anticipate some people avoiding me altogether. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Hero Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Yeah to be honest I know a LOT of people are going to treat me differently now that I've revealed this information, which I expected. I even anticipate some people avoiding me altogether. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Rabbit Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Yeah to be honest I know a LOT of people are going to treat me differently now that I've revealed this information, which I expected. I even anticipate some people avoiding me altogether. ^_^ Not me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 (edited) Wait a damn minute...I dunno if I wanna keep calling you Cynthia if you're not female. What should I call you (before I make up a stupid nickname)? My point proven... Why should you change even my NAME just because I'm not physically female? Obviously I chose this name because I like to be called by it. So please just continue calling me as you always have. Edited January 15, 2009 by Cynthia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Judge Judy Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Do you always look like that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erk Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I admire your courage and not caring what other people think about you. I admit, when I joined a short while ago I wasnt sure on your preference or gender, looks like my geuss was correct. I am glad you have a Girlfriend who supports you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Yeah to be honest I know a LOT of people are going to treat me differently now that I've revealed this information, which I expected. I even anticipate some people avoiding me altogether. Actually, that's the obvious conclusion, yes. If you aren't a female in the internet, chances are you've just become 85% less interesting right off the bat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cynthia Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 I admire your courage and not caring what other people think about you. I admit, when I joined a short while ago I wasnt sure on your preference or gender, looks like my geuss was correct. I am glad you have a Girlfriend who supports you. You joined 1 day before I left... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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