Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 (edited) Never mind it already exists hue What oh its only hiphopheads thank goodness Edited October 8, 2016 by Trisitei Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 whatever happened to that hhh wikia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fleece Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 my parents keep guilt-tripping me and mom made me promise that I can't move across the country unless i'm engaged but I didn't even get to say anything she just wants things her way this is why I'm never happy that feel when you will probably never be popular cos you're not a girl this is false i'm not popular either and i need that sort of attention and people thinking i'm cool to thrive r i p i think you're pretty well known though i believe in u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 thought about getting a social worker? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondworld Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 whatever happened to that hhh wikia Same thing that happened to those tropes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 a team of one is hard to manage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuxSpes Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 What oh its only hiphopheads thank goodness It seems like r/hhh doesn't technically exists, but it redirects to hiphopheads whatever happened to that hhh wikia Uncomplete and forgotten like all those other HHH projects Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 my parents keep guilt-tripping me and mom made me promise that I can't move across the country unless i'm engaged but I didn't even get to say anything she just wants things her way this is why I'm never happy they can try to make you promise but it's ultimately your life and she has no say in it. though i know it's difficult.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuxSpes Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 a team of one is hard to manage I was going to say "then imagine how hard a team of 4 is" then I realized that if one consider themselves a team of one, it can indeed be harder to work alone than in a group since you have only you to motivate yourself and can't rely on anyone else to lighten the load. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 kind of why it just flopped it was just me, and then i got distracted by other stuff and more other stuff i'd rather not talk about in public lesson learned dont tackle big projects you know you're not gonna stick with until the end Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fleece Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 thought about getting a social worker? Me? I'm not really sure what to do, the longer I live here the worse I feel and more self-destructive I get but I'm really fearful of doing anything because of how they'll react or what'll happen to me..The whole moving in with my friends plan is pretty much bust for now because they kept getting their work hours cut and they don't even have internet anymore and the one friend's mom is p awful herself and it doesn't look like they're getting out anytime soon, I don't like my relatives either SO I really have nowhere else to go another problem is that I'm on SSI with my mom as my payee so she basically has control over me and the money I get every month so unless I can get it switched to me as payee theres not much I can do and I don't know if doing that will go well while I'm still here they can try to make you promise but it's ultimately your life and she has no say in it. though i know it's difficult.... True, but idk what shes capable of if I defy her feel trapped Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuxSpes Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 kind of why it just flopped it was just me, and then i got distracted by other stuff and more other stuff i'd rather not talk about in public lesson learned dont tackle big projects you know you're not gonna stick with until the end Well you have to know your limits and avoid spending time and energy in an in the end, pointless endeavor since it can end up burning you out. But I think it's good to challenge oneself to complete something once you've started it, if only to practice self-discipline. Though for that purpose, smaller projects are a better starting point than big ones. Not that I'm one to talk since I've been working on the same story for 2 years now and I've barely got anything written down '>v> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 Me? I'm not really sure what to do, the longer I live here the worse I feel and more self-destructive I get but I'm really fearful of doing anything because of how they'll react or what'll happen to me..The whole moving in with my friends plan is pretty much bust for now because they kept getting their work hours cut and they don't even have internet anymore and the one friend's mom is p awful herself and it doesn't look like they're getting out anytime soon, I don't like my relatives either SO I really have nowhere else to go another problem is that I'm on SSI with my mom as my payee so she basically has control over me and the money I get every month so unless I can get it switched to me as payee theres not much I can do and I don't know if doing that will go well while I'm still here really kind of what im suggesting a in house social worker someone to come in and really help with this dysfunction Well you have to know your limits and avoid spending time and energy in an in the end, pointless endeavor since it can end up burning you out. But I think it's good to challenge oneself to complete something once you've started it, if only to practice self-discipline. Though for that purpose, smaller projects are a better starting point than big ones. Not that I'm one to talk since I've been working on the same story for 2 years now and I've barely got anything written down '>v> did have this one smaller project i did over the summer that saw the end actually proud of it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twice Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 (edited) [spoiler=...] I have all these resources yet not enough steel to repair.. I'm- [spoiler=history repeats itself ] edit: oops I cropped it too much on gyazo when I took it anyways I can't repair :/ Edited October 8, 2016 by ♯Jin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 (edited) but what exactly did i do DID YOU PUT ME ON IGNORE You just made a post that disproved a thought I had. I wouldn't have known you posted if you were. soooooooooooooooool go on skype unless you are I typically am, yes. Including right now. Like are the things going on here really that interesting to people?? But that's just my guess Edited October 8, 2016 by Soledai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuxSpes Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 did have this one smaller project i did over the summer that saw the end actually proud of it That sounds pretty good. Doing small projects you can be proud of is a good way of building self-esteem and self-discipline, which may let you become confident enough to tackle a slightly bigger project. Don't know why I remembered this weird metaphor now, but "you've gotta eat an elephant one bite at a time" But that's just my guess wow >v> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starman Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 sounds like a helpful one indeed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acacia Sgt Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 Still no update on that AH. I hope it didn't meant next week's Thursday... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuxSpes Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 sounds like a helpful one indeed The elephant metaphor? If so it is. When a task feels overwhelming because of how big it is, breaking it down in smaller, more manageable parts is the best way to succeed. A guy who climbed the Everest and came to do a talk at my high school used that metaphor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fleece Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 really kind of what im suggesting a in house social worker someone to come in and really help with this dysfunction Oh ..yeah I'm kind of really afraid to do anything like that unless I have everything packed and can get out ASAP or already out of the house Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ebony Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 [spoiler=history repeats itself ] edit: oops I cropped it too much on gyazo when I took it anyways I can't repair :/ i'm always lacking some type of metal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twice Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 i'm always lacking some type of metal SAAAAAAME Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondworld Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 Good god Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinumi Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 (edited) man i know im biased as fuck but monbebes are the most hard-working fandom when it comes to their idols wtf like 1. 1thek's channel is the most commonly used to watch new music videos and even for huge groups like bts the views on 1thek's mv total to wayyy more than the views on the official channel but 1thek views don't count toward winning on inkigayo so for monsta x people actually watch the starship channel mv way more. they're the only group i know that this applies to lmao 2. on mcountdown's pre-voting monsta x actually competes with got7 and shinee??? seriously got7 and shinee are huge and from jyp/sm respectively and the fact that mx is still second is amazing i actually went to monsta x's v-app chat earlier and everyone was like "im makin 10 accounts to vote" and man believe me i have never seen that for any other group i follow 3. the first like 20 comments on mcountdown's sns section are all #몬스타엑스. a screenshot would be too long but considering the size of the fandom compared to the likes of shinee and got7 that's rly impressive 4. competing with got7, again 5. seriously by the end of the fighter countdown livestream there was 21 million hearts!!!! 21 million!!!!!!!!!!! thats one of the fastest times a v-app video's ever gotten so many unless you compare that to bts and exo idk man i just rly admire all this like of course every group wants to get their first win but monsta x is so incredibly vocal about it and the fact that monbebes are working so hard to make this happen is so cool to me bless this fandom Edited October 8, 2016 by sinumi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinumi Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 idk how to help but im rly sorry about that lettuce your situation sounds rough : ( i hope it all gets worked out idk parents can suck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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