Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 I've used Iris too many fucking times alreadyThen Steven. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 No Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 (edited) NoRin Kagamine (totally not throwing forth random names.) Edited July 15, 2014 by Sylveon Lord Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Tamanoir Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Hmmmmmm after I posted my long long rant about why I'm one of the worst people ever in qotd Integrity got really really concerned (if I knew that would have happened I wouldn't have said anything at all ;n;) but but he gave me advice on how to quit beating myself up, if people with self-esteem issues might want to hear He told me (even though it may be tough (and is even tough for him) to not instinctively think "dammit <insert ur name here> really") that I need to focus on not beating myself over something I did wrong because that gets me nowhere. As an engineer he was taught that when something wrong happens, the last thing engineers are allowed to conclude is that something went wrong based on "user error." They're supposed to find out what part of the situation caused something wrong to occur and learn how to avoid doing it again. So he says... rather than blame ourselves (or at least just try to avoid doing that much more than a second~) we should instead try to focus more on what went wrong and try to practice to avoid doing it wrong again. I haven't tried for long enough to figure out how well this works out because I still need a lot more practice... but it really does sound more productive than when I'm always blaming myself for everything and deciding I can't do anything right... I really do hope this can help others and their self-esteem, though (like if you continuously do things that give you a lower opinion of yourself, it may help to try avoid beating yourself up and instead figure out what happened and what the problem was and really really try teach yourself how to avoid that situation again. That also means try avoiding blaming yourself if you can't accomplish this kind of thinking straight away because of course it'll be tough ^o^ You just need to figure out a way to overcome it~!) Oh, you mean his Avatar?? =D I can only speak for myself here, obviously. Even if I understand why there is no reason for me to have lack of self-esteem, it didn't helped me buy it. Still, this kind of reasoning isn't useless. Trying to think reasonably about the problem helps you to calm down and focus. Instead of falling in an endless cycle of self-deprecation, it helps you get out of it. But fighting against your habits is hard. It takes a lot of effort to go against the usual instinct of self-deprecation, or abandon. It is a first part, and it is extremely imortant to remember it, but it's not the end of all, just the start. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Rin Kagamine (totally not throwing forth random names.) It has to be something that I fucking know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Rin Kagamine (totally not throwing forth random names.) quit being a weeb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Did he already do a Lindow avy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 It has to be something that I fucking know.The twin sister of the guy in my avi. A vocaloid. Um.... Eirika? quit being a weebWhat is wrong with Vocaloid? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 The twin sister of the guy in my avi. A vocaloid. Um.... Eirika?What is wrong with Vocaloid? yes because I totally fucking know that shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koneko Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 (edited) [spoiler=this is nice to listen to] nuhapparently my pop's friend was all "MY DAUGHTER DO GOOD BCOS SHE DOES THIS"life is hard I think I know whose dad was it I'm so sorry man still Edited July 15, 2014 by Koneko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamanoir Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 gives bad nostalgia to when everyone made nicknames though I guess it isn't as bad as kitater-tots or hello kitty or meowing everytime I come by I understand that. And they all think they're soo original and they're not the 4564235545th one to do these goddamn puns. It's freaking annoying. Also, hey Kitty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinumi Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 whose* it's okay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 (edited) yes because I totally fucking know that shit. Edited July 15, 2014 by Sylveon Lord Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Is it really fucking necessary to post that without fucking spoiler tags? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 What is wrong with Vocaloid? nothing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DodgeDusk Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 (edited) Saying this in advance: spamming huge pictures like that will cause unnecessary stretching Breezy beat me to it :v Edited July 15, 2014 by DodgeDusk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Ahhhhhh well sorry shytende I can't speak for him but if it doesn't work for you then that is disappointing =< Sadly not everybody can get helped by the same advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 nothing :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 :D i dont want your shota porn thank you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koneko Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 I understand that. And they all think they're soo original and they're not the 4564235545th one to do these goddamn puns. It's freaking annoying. Also, hey Kitty. Well..for me. The most annoying thing was when someone asked 'hey, what's your real name?' It's common to ask so I guess I can't blame them for it, but yeah it's really annoying. OTL Though I presume you've been like that as well at one point..? :c Afternoon Arthur. whose* it's okay oops wrong grammar though you know what time to go and everything right? and you need the act prep book if you're going to my class Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 i dont want your shota porn thank you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 Saying this in advance: spamming huge pictures like that will cause unnecessary stretching Breezy beat me to it :v what else is not new? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caster Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 so you do want his dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 so you do want his dick.Whose? Len's? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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