Junkhead Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Long story short, I met a pretty girl at my cousin's birthday the other day. I kind of liked her, she seemed nice. Can't even get myself to add her on FB because I'm afraid I won't know where to go from there (and/or what to say). I think I made a pretty good impression at the party, but I don't know if I can be that awesome guy again without the given context. Can't stop wondering if to add her or not. I really do want to, I just don't know what will happen afterwards. I'm not going to lie, I'm actually sort of "scared" of the idea of a relationship. I'm not particularly romantic...but I do like her that way. Or I was pretty attracted to her, at the very least (as I couldn't stop thinking about it). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twice Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 You should just go ahead and go for it. That's better than nothing ^.^ (and I know that indecisive feeling as well... it's hell) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slade Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 You should have a lot of free time to keep a relationship. How I would play it? I like to be patient and get to know her until I personally feel comfortable to move on. Get a response out of people that talk to her so you can understand how she acts around certain people. I'm not a love doctor but be yourself, I would rather be hated for someone I am than to be admired for someone I am not. Good luck ;D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 like everyone in this thread i know that feeling, but now i just go for things. i was anxious about asking professors about their research/getting into their lab in the past and now i do it without ease. a phd student told me something so obvious, but it just clicked at that moment. "its just another person, what is there to be scared of?" idk if that will resonate with you like it did with me, but she is just another person at the end of the day. what is there to fear? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 how can op expect me to read this topic with that avi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dandragon Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 how can op expect me to read this topic with that avi Do you have a problem with Thomas and Friends? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 (edited) ...oh my GOD this isnt in fftf my mistake do you have some way you can see her again? i dont know Edited September 29, 2015 by xXHoshiHeartsXx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carter Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 You should add her! You should get to know her better, and if you really still like her afterwards, ask her out! Maybe then arrange to meet somewhere? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aramis Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Indecisiveness is a privilege. Stagnation is glorified suicide. You already know the answer yourself. Hypothetically speaking, in the worst case she won't be interested or is already in a relationship. There will be always more women around than your acquaintance and thus the possible gains do outweigh the losses by far. Other people, even your crush are as insecure in certain areas as you are in making contact. This is universal, and does not only affect you. If i may give some advice, you should try to remember that. 頑張れ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maribelle Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Go add her. Go on!! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted September 30, 2015 Author Share Posted September 30, 2015 Thanks A LOT, gais (hey, it's pronounced "guys" not "gays")! I figured, I'd rather do something about it. I sent her the request. Worst case scenario, she doesn't accept. At least I take a weight off my chest leaving it follow it's natural course. (: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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