I don't even know what to think of this anymore. At first it looked like a topic about getting an online couple back together, which normally I wouldn't even look at twice. What's worse is not only did I go into the topic, I somehow managed to helped the guy and he thanks me. *sigh* I can't help but feel I'm being dragged into your pace here.
Oh and MR, the problem with you and Kiryn doesn't seem as much like you're trying to balance out your selves but you're trying to hold on to your perverted egotist side to fall back on if she doesn't like your serious side. With that thought process you have effectively split yourself into two beings, thus destroying whatever "real self" existed. I've had this happen several times and it's caused me nothing but trouble. All I'm trying to say is if you truly love her, you can trust her with seeing your whole self not just the two sides you keep separate. Show her all that you honestly are and I'm sure she'll accept you.
...Shit now I'm giving relationship advice. I really am becoming like them.