Helios Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I was browsing through facebook today, and I saw a girl post this: "I want a boy bestfriend who will call me beautiful, and like my photos on facebook, commenting them saying things such as the fact he's proud to have me as a bestfriend. One that I can call up, crying about other boys, and him saying he'll beat the shit out of them for me. A boy bestfriend who will drive me around like he's my big brother, and kiss me on my cheek/forehead when he knows I'm upset. One who becomes friends with my boyfriend and one who calls me up to see what I'm doing. I want a boy best friend who will tell me when I'm wrong, and force me into fixing things and apologizing because he knows that it will make things better for me. I just want a perfect boy best friend, who will love me and protect me from all the other boys. " This makes no sense to me as a guy. The guy she's describing is basically the perfect boyfriend so why wouldn't she want that? Especially since she's one of those girls that is always talking about love and wanting a boyfriend and all. Instead, she wants to meet a great guy and FRIEND-ZONE him? She'll have this guy around to basically complain about all the f*ck-ups that she dates instead, while he's sitting there wondering why she's so blind. It's silly to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Holy shit i'm surprised with that wall of text. Totally thought a huge dick was coming... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 insert witty comment and all that jazz here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Blind Archer Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Disregard wimmenz. Acquire currency. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helios Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 Holy shit i'm surprised with that wall of text. Totally thought a huge dick was coming... Ahahaha. Nah I just didn't think my rant should go in the serious discussion thread lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 I dunno man, those types of females are just as confusing to me as to you guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Don't try to understand girls so much, it hurts your brain too much and is a huge waste of time because they're all gonna be like super super different. Like that Ein? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Don't try to understand girls so much, it hurts your brain too much and is a huge waste of time because they're all gonna be like super super different. Like that Ein? Oh, wow, encouragement in the greatest form from Freohr... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Don't try to understand girls so much, it hurts your brain too much and is a huge waste of time because they're all gonna be like super super different. Like that Ein? Nah. Needs more of my patented snarkiness. Or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) Also >protect from other boys weak go beat them up yourself with a spatula Edited March 16, 2012 by Luminescent Blade Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Oh, wow, encouragement in the greatest form from Freohr... I prefer to call it "obvious truth" Nah. Needs more of my patented snarkiness. Or something. Aww Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eail Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 In my years on this earth I've discovered it's best not to question why women do things, it's better for your sanity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Also >protect from other boys weak go beat them up yourself with a spatula I prefer to call it "obvious truth" Aww "I hate my gender" - Freohr and Lumi In my years on this earth I've discovered it's best not to question why women do things, it's better for your sanity Truth. Sadly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) Not really "I don't like my gender" but rather the representatives for it..... And other factors that come with it that are not quite fun to deal with~ Oh and I bet I probably also act confusing sometimes. I can't really think of anything but I just have some feeling... Edited March 16, 2012 by Freohr Datia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 It sounds like she wants someone she can call "onii chan". :\ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 It sounds like she wants someone she can call "onii chan". :\ The best kind of girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uguu Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Also >protect from other boys weak go beat them up yourself with a spatula I wish all women were as badass as you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) <3 "I hate my gender stereotype" - Freohr and Lumi fixed Edited March 16, 2012 by Luminescent Blade Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Not really "I don't like my gender" but rather the representatives for it..... And other factors that come with it that are not quite fun to deal with~ Oh and I bet I probably also act confusing sometimes. I can't really think of anything but I just have some feeling... Freohr, you just completely confused me with the first two lines... But I get your point about the representatives, I was just joking around with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lux Aeterna Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 (edited) Yeah, well, apparently girls can get the same treatment as guys, friend-zoning-wise. Just less prominent. Gender roles, I hope, will someday fade away and we'll all just be equal rather than having expectations of one another. Other than the fact that, by design, women and men have strengths and weaknesses that the other does not. That's not equal; it never will be, as a general statistic. ... More on topic, I don't know why that girl is looking for a guy. A best friend, period, could do all that stuff for her. Except the boyfriend-ish parts. That I don't get at all. EDIT: I mean, stupid people aren't really chained to one gender or the other. EDIT2: Actually, I like Joey's answer better. Edited March 16, 2012 by Lux Aeterna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEST TRYNDAMERE PLAYER Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 She's clearly looking for a strong, sassy gay man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 Oh god now I'm reminded of those Sassy Gay Friend shakespeare spoofs XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helios Posted March 16, 2012 Author Share Posted March 16, 2012 I honestly feel like with most teenage girls, the difference between bestfriend and potential boyfriend is looks. Not saying all girls are like this of course, I know many that don't fall under the stereotype and I'm (happily) friends with a lot of girls. It's just some are...confusing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 They'll probably grow out of it eventually when they realise that those studly jerks they've been dating are totally not worth it in the long run. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uguu Posted March 16, 2012 Share Posted March 16, 2012 sounding kinda Nice Guy there Lumi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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