ButteredToast Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Wow. Those that are making fun of you for being a virgin need to get laid! (Irony got the best of me) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naglfar94 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 My advice is just continue what your doing don`t let peer pressure get to you follow the wrong thing. Just stay with what you think is right and stay with it. But yeah there is no need to rush at stuff like that it takes time no need to rush just cause others make fun of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Poet Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Speaking candidly, I don't know enough about you that I could rightly tell you what to value, or what stance is "correct" on this issue. Still, I do feel that, while it's healthy and admirable that you're reaching for a personal resolution, your priority here is first to assuage the bullying. You should try and distance yourself from those that are unreasonably intolerant of you instead of reconsidering your own beliefs. I mean, had they made fun of your hair, it likely wouldn't have made you reconsider your taste in hairstyles. Sometimes groups of people can be whimsically rude on certain matters, and the only impartial advice I can offer is to take their words lightly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rehab Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Specifically with regard to the "waste your life waiting" charge; man, you have so much time. You have so much time to figure this stuff out for yourself, it's ridiculous. People ten years older than you still have so much time it's ridiculous. You don't need even to justify not having sex in high school (or ever, for that matter, but especially not the second it becomes physically possible), it doesn't reflect one bad thing on you. I was lucky enough that nobody I'd have called a close friend would have made fun of somebody for whatever amount of sex they had, but if that's just the kind of person you're saddled with being around, you're within your rights to just laugh it off. I'd just be happy for them, assuming whatever sex they've had/are having was/is on the level, and hope they're having fun. The only objective difference between you and them is that they've experienced one bodily function that you haven't, and the very thing that makes that function worthwhile is being comfortable going into it. You can always turn it back on them for a laugh, if you want- ask them why they're so interested if they're not coming onto you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raven Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 The people making fun of you for your virginity are the ones who are insecure. Let them ride on. As for you, you can stick your dick in whoever you want, whenever you want. As long as it's consensual, of course. And Dondon is pretty much speaking what I think. There's a reason why some countries in the world are still stuck in the 16th century, and it's not because they're poor countries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aizenberg Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 masturbate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 (edited) i mean honestly did you expect to receive a different response from this site? and uh abstinence all the way, your "friends" are a bunch of idiots, get new ones Edited October 18, 2013 by Bacteriophage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix Wright Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 what do you mean everyone here is a raging bachelor/bachelorette gettin that genitalia at least twice a day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 but dude secks is bad if you have secks you get pregnant then you die Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nobody Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 but dude secks is bad if you have secks you get pregnant then you die This shouldn't have made me laugh, but it did. I have the maturity of a seven years old =( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 what do you mean everyone here is a raging bachelor/bachelorette gettin that genitalia at least twice a day Implausible on account of my existence! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 There are fates worst then death. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 There are fates worst then death. Many of them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 (edited) Only if you believe in an afterlife...or anything else that provides you a conscious state after death. Also Phoenix why do you think everyone giving advice jacks it Edited October 18, 2013 by Narga_Rocks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dondon151 Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Also Phoenix why do you think everyone giving advice jacks it it's a reasonable assumption to make: - SF is predominantly male - 95% of males masturbate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 The Internet is predominantly male. Oh, OH. But that's not to say the "absitent" people do it, right...RIGHT!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 There's a lot more women than you'd think on the internet really We just don't talk as much because harassment is a thing we have to deal with every time we /dare/ have opinions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 it's a reasonable assumption to make: - SF is predominantly male - 95% of males masturbate Less than 5% of males worldwide are on this site. Besides, my existence is a continual defiance of the expected hormonal patterns of humans. Some even call me 'a living robot' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 The Internet is predominantly male. Oh, OH. But that's not to say the "absitent" people do it, right...RIGHT!? I believe that it's a violation of abstinence, so for me it's a definite no, I don't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 There's a lot more women than you'd think on the internet really We just don't talk as much because harassment is a thing we have to deal with every time we /dare/ have opinions That's a silly reason. If one can't be "themselves" on the Internet (or try to express something they wouldn't irl) then I don't understand. Besides, my existence is a continual defiance of the expected hormonal patterns of humans. Some even call me 'a living robot' Are you liek, 15. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix Wright Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Less than 5% of males worldwide are on this site. Besides, my existence is a continual defiance of the expected hormonal patterns of humans. Some even call me 'a living robot' what in the hell are you talking about Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 Are you liek, 15. No. I-AM-IRISH! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 what in the hell are you talking about I'm saying that statistics are patterns, not definites, so all because 90% of the time Thing A happens doesn't mean that it always or even regularly happens here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 It's very much believable that you aren't masturbating, because I myself never did in my teenage years and never felt anxious or anything about not doing it...thing is, the way you expressed it sounds incredibly silly and like something a significantly younger person would claim in such a way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 It's very much believable that you aren't masturbating, because I myself never did in my teenage years and never felt anxious or anything about not doing it...thing is, the way you expressed it sounds incredibly silly and like something a significantly younger person would claim in such a way. Sorry, I'm just fond of eccentricity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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