deleted35362 Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Why do you care so much about what others expect? my answer is, stupid parents forcing their stupid ideals on kids and having them be miserable their whole childhood. most parents hate to have their kids even be homosexual let alone help them with any gender identity crises. it's bad. and god, is it annoying how often gender has to be mentioned in general. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
N7隊長ジョン Posted July 18, 2014 Author Share Posted July 18, 2014 I feel like i'm in serious discussion gg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DodgeDusk Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 ding Fries are done Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koneko Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 This page is lovely but 4200 is better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acacia Sgt Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Oh yeah, page 4300. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 I feel like i'm in serious discussion gg but there's no chiki throwing insults at us Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnonymousSpeed Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 I feel like i'm in serious discussion gg It's...I feel it is best I remove myself from the topic. Let us change the subject to chicken.Fries are done I actually just are fries. Working on the chicken I ordered. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Why do you care so much about what others expect? So your choices are: human being with a gender, or...slugs and bacteria. Because when you're pestered over it constantly, it becomes annoying. my answer is, stupid parents forcing their stupid ideals on kids and having them be miserable their whole childhood. most parents hate to have their kids even be homosexual let alone help them with any gender identity crises. it's bad. and god, is it annoying how often gender has to be mentioned in general. This was a huge problem for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 I don't really mind that I'm a girl, but I don't go out of my way to act like the stereotyped "girl" and I just don't care that much if people have expectations out of me. I do what I want because I enjoy it. There are times when I can be pretty "girly" but I don't care if it's considered girly or not, I just care that I do what I like to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HK Motendra Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 There's more to it than just social stereotypes and norms, ya know. People are often treated differently and sometimes unfairly due to their gender, be it for better or worse, and whether well intent or not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinumi Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 NO I JUST MISSED IT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 NO I JUST MISSED IT RIP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 NO I JUST MISSED ITShame on goo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acacia Sgt Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Different treatment in itself wouldn't be bad as long as it retains a neutral stance. The moment there is an intent that carries superiority or condescension, that's when it becomes bad, or gets a bad rep. Well, that's what I think if I'm wording it correctly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Koneko Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 NO I JUST MISSED IT Kim I can delete my post if you want Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pull My Devil Trigger Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 No you can't Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 There's more to it than just social stereotypes and norms, ya know. People are often treated differently and sometimes unfairly due to their gender, be it for better or worse, and whether well intent or not Yeah I agree, the sexism can get pretty bad... This isn't as bad a case because I haven't dealt with extreme sexism afaik, but when I said to some of my relatives that I wanted to be a landscape architect at first they thought I meant the labour kind (but it's the artistic kind, where I just draw my own landscape designs and then others do the work), they asked me "Wow really, is that the kind of job for a girl?? Doing all that work?" I mean sure I am incredibly tiny and weak, but if that was actually the kind of job that interested me why should that be the wrong job for me? I think that is one of the cases where the stereotypers (wee making up words... I think) had no ill will at all, they seriously thought that that job probably wouldn't have been enjoyable or too hard for me and that I could have searched for an easier job, but if that were the kind of job that I wanted or interested me enough then I think it shouldn't concern them and I would make it work out~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HK Motendra Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 (edited) Different treatment in itself wouldn't be bad as long as it retains a neutral stance. The moment there is an intent that carries superiority or condescension, that's when it becomes bad, or gets a bad rep. Well, that's what I think if I'm wording it correctly. Yeah, there's that. What I was going at is how gender treatment can lead to unsavory situations. For girls, there's gaining unwanted and/or unnecessary attention from guys, and always being played easy on And for guys, there's being put on the spot constantly, along with extensive labors Course, there are cases of both for both genders, but there is a large variance in frequency These are but a few that came off the top of my head EDIT: Yes, Freohr. Pretty much that Edited July 18, 2014 by The King Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 The hell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 The hellYo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lance Masayoshi Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 i've been here why are you saying hi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magical Glace Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 i've been here why are you saying hiNo idea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acacia Sgt Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Yo. Tú El Ella Nosotros Ustedes Ellos Ellas Wait... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breezy Kanzaki Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 lol. It's Spanish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acacia Sgt Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Yeah, found it a good bait for a little hilarity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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