I always try not to say "Don't judge", because everybody does it, and it's pretty much impossible to completely prevent. Often judging people is just the only practical way to make things work, because you cannot get to know every single person you ever meet intimately. What I tend to recommend though is to not be a moron. Go ahead and judge people, but don't let your judgements get in the way of your logic. I think the point of the initial statement, however was that you should let others do what they please with their own bodies, and the "judging" thing was kind of thrown in there without the intention to make it like that. (though some of us may remember "don't judge don't judge") I don't oppose calling someone a slut, but that's because for me it bears no real negative connotation. I don't care if you're a "slut", honestly, it's just not something that really matters to me, and I think it's somewhat pointless to actually base the way you treat someone on something as silly as that. Of course, I understand that some people aren't as laisser-faire when it comes to sex as I am, so it might actually mean a lot more to them. Oh well.