mewyeon Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 I used to think guys were a lot simpler and easier to understand, until I met a guy who revealed that his joking demeanor was just so that he wouldn't get hurt if someone actually rejected him. And he could just pass it off as a joke anyway. I was amazed he actually thought that far, but that's probably just me being naive... On the flip side, I know some of my girlfriends that complain about not having any guy friends and how they can't talk to guys. And I'm like 'well what about this guy you know, and that guy and that guy' and they're like 'well...they seem kind of gender neutral to me. I can't see them as a guy'. And I just think 'OH HOW IT WOULD GRIEVE THEM TO HEAR YOU SAY THAT'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eclipse Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 women aren't strange, you're just socially inept, kids Dammit Stoly, stop being so amazing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 Dammit Stoly, stop being so amazing! Not so much amazing as it is having common sense-Damn it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Djeets Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 it can't be helped that we can't read each other minds, we can't know all of everyone's secret. ,but since that was the case, perhaps there are unexpected truths behind this situation Pal, (just don't get your hopes up >,<) or else, why would she say her secret to you? telling secret usually proves you are much closer sometimes... like Doga said, strong friendship usually much better than Couples since they usually doubt each other.. Long story short, just accept the situation and your friend no matter how confusing and bizzare they are, things will get clearer soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aizenberg Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 women aren't strange, you're just socially inept, kids the truth. cuts like a rusty knife Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEST TRYNDAMERE PLAYER Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 women aren't strange, you're just socially inept, kids BEST POST IN THIS THREAD, YOU GET A GOLD STAR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 women aren't strange, you're just socially inept, kids I'm proud of you son ; u; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 y- you guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 y- you guys da best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klokinator Posted May 26, 2013 Share Posted May 26, 2013 y- you guys I read that while looking at your avatar. It made those two words look hyper sexual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esau of Isaac Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 Do you have any particular neuroscience tidbits in mind as to why that is? It's likely basic evolutionary behavior at work. A person selects a mate they find most attractive because they will assumedly possess good genes. Romantic relationships can possibly exist without an attention to the physical side, I suppose. But I agree with others here in that I don't think a romantic relationship of depth will work long in its absence. Also I try to post lindybeige whenever the slightest bit relevant so: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aizenberg Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 (edited) Well personally I prefer these qualities in a women, Personality Looks Job Race/Ethic lol who cares about what job they have and race/ethic. really? does that matter? Edited May 27, 2013 by Aizenberg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 (edited) lol who cares about what job they have and race/ethic. really? does that matter? Keep in mind that those four things aren't guidelines that EVERY person follows strictly. Some people would rather have a relationship with someone who is financially stable so they can avoid situations where (for example) that person begins to leech off of them and become lazy because "lol my bf/gf is paying for my stuff so why work". At least, this is the reason why I think a person would favor someone with a decent job. As for race, some people just like the aesthetics that people from certain racial backgrounds have. That's all there is to it, really. Edited May 27, 2013 by Esme Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raven Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 If I went for every girl I'd developed a thing for I'd have either: a list of rejections longer than my rhetorically large penis, or AIDS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 I would have a job, no hair, and thousands of dollars in debt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Bear Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 If I went for every girl I'd developed a thing for I'd have either: a list of rejections longer than my rhetorically large penis, or AIDS. ...Wow... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrhesia Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 jesus christ this topic "SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND WHO WASN'T ME WTFWOMEN, RIGHT?!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riariadne Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 women aren't strange, you're just socially inept, kidsthis post is a winner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eclipse Posted May 27, 2013 Share Posted May 27, 2013 lol who cares about what job they have and race/ethic. really? does that matter? Job - Shows some sense of personal responsibility. It doesn't seem important until you live with someone who doesn't work that much. Race - Not all families accept other races. I don't think I'd want my boyfriend to choose between his family or me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tao Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 lol who cares about what job they have and race/ethic. really? does that matter? Wow, that's completely.... how old are you? At least when you're older, you SHOULD care about what job your significant other has... ESPECIALLY if s/he doesn't have one. It's like, would you want one who's working at McD's or someone who has a more respectable job? And the race/ethnicity is a personal preference, at least that's how I see it when people list that as their criteria. jesus christ this topic "SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND WHO WASN'T ME WTF WOMEN, RIGHT?!" and this post is the winner! :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceBrand Posted May 28, 2013 Author Share Posted May 28, 2013 (edited) lol who cares about what job they have and race/ethic. really? does that matter? Well personally I would have a woman who has a decent job and can take care of her self. Race/Ethic is also a personal choice. Edited May 28, 2013 by Majestic Paladin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceBrand Posted May 28, 2013 Author Share Posted May 28, 2013 jesus christ this topic "SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND WHO WASN'T ME WTF WOMEN, RIGHT?!" Except for the fact that what you just posted is incorrect. Me and her were friends in the beginning and I was ok with that. The way she acted around me made me think she wanted to be more than friends. And we she told me she had a boyfriend it took me off guard. I'm was ok with that and moved on, understand now? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 so why are women strange again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rehab Posted May 28, 2013 Share Posted May 28, 2013 I only accept people people able to breath and maintain structure in the cold depths of space as relationship prospects Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceBrand Posted May 28, 2013 Author Share Posted May 28, 2013 so why are women strange again She mad suggestive action towards me even though she had a boyfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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