Thor Odinson Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 (edited) what does this question even mean like, are they trying to prevent me from contacting my friends? I mean what can they actually do though, I'm an adult with a good job, I paid for my own phone, I pay my phone bills myself, so even if they wanted to, they don't have legal means of stopping me anyway Edited August 13, 2016 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Specta Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 they can try but i'm 23 so good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Light Strategist Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 Fuck off elsewhere for a change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 They never did, or do, and I doubt they ever will That, and being nearly 30 would also play a factor as why they couldn't do anything about it. And even if I twist the question and pretend I'm a lad, they still wouldn't have to, because I very likely wouldn't associate with the kinds of people for them to even go that far in the first place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErrantDShepherd Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 Grammar is a bit off, Ayama. Do you mean #71: What would you do, if your relatives tried to get you to stop contacting your friends? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisterIceTeaPeach Posted August 14, 2016 Author Share Posted August 14, 2016 I fixed my question. Hopefully it's more obvious now. The question doesn't focus on only parents anymore since some people don't live with them together anymore a/o don't have any contact to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErrantDShepherd Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 Seems more clear. I would say... "why do I have a boyfriend/girlfriend!? I am married!" My family in general has pretty good judgement, so if they were that concerned about a person it would probably make me stop and think about things. (Not everyone has that though) Now though, I am married. So... yeah if they had any whatever about my wife, it would tick me off. I am an obscenely loyal person, once I make my choice it's hard to get me to change my mind... hard-headed, stubborn sort. Although, I am willing to be proven wrong. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roxas Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 Circumvent them Wouldn't be the first time lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 (edited) Well, the term "friend" could have been all-encompassing I suppose. Though, my answer is largely unchanged, save one minor detail: because I very likely wouldn't associate with the kind of woman for them to even go that far in the first place. Edited August 14, 2016 by Soledai Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raguna Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 (edited) Well, I'd ask what those reservations are, but I've been told to have good judgment and most of my slightly big decisions including my relationships were never really opposed by anyone. The only I can remember was due to a miscommunication from parties that didn't even contact me directly over it. Edited August 14, 2016 by Raguna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Renne Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 I have no idea because it never happened before and my dad likes Ein to the point of inviting him to a meal every time he comes over and visit me soooooooooooo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alex95 Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 I don't have a girlfriend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Seems more clear. I would say... "why do I have a boyfriend/girlfriend!? I am married!" My family in general has pretty good judgement, so if they were that concerned about a person it would probably make me stop and think about things. (Not everyone has that though) Now though, I am married. So... yeah if they had any whatever about my wife, it would tick me off. I am an obscenely loyal person, once I make my choice it's hard to get me to change my mind... hard-headed, stubborn sort. Although, I am willing to be proven wrong. ;) I'd say, I'm married, and I'm 30. I've been living on my own since college, so it's not really been their business in the first place, but I just saw boy/girlfriends without telling them about it. I never told any of my family about my girlfriends. It's not that hard if you live on your own. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Res Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Like a couple of the previous posters, since I've been married for a few years now, I'd ignore anything my family had to say. However, back when I was dating? My *siblings* have good judgement, so I'd at least have listened to what they say. My mom has terrible judgement so I never listened to her. And as for my kids, I'd only interfere in their future relationships if I thought there was a danger to their lives, and I hope I'd have built the kind of relationship with them where they'd listen to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 Like a couple of the previous posters, since I've been married for a few years now, I'd ignore anything my family had to say. However, back when I was dating? My *siblings* have good judgement, so I'd at least have listened to what they say. My mom has terrible judgement so I never listened to her. And as for my kids, I'd only interfere in their future relationships if I thought there was a danger to their lives, and I hope I'd have built the kind of relationship with them where they'd listen to me. My main goal in life is to be a better parent than my parents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 My main goal in life is to be a better parent than my parents. That's a trap. (meant as a general statement(seriously if you want to be a better parent than yours, make sure you're clear on what your parents did wrong and how you do it differently, also get therapy and parenting classes(especially recommend triple P))) My parents told me they didn't want me to have to sex with my first girlfriend when I was 16, and ever since I've not bothered even letting them know whether or not I was seeing someone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sylveonzoroark Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 do it anyways and ask why Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 That's a trap. (meant as a general statement(seriously if you want to be a better parent than yours, make sure you're clear on what your parents did wrong and how you do it differently, also get therapy and parenting classes(especially recommend triple P))) My parents told me they didn't want me to have to sex with my first girlfriend when I was 16, and ever since I've not bothered even letting them know whether or not I was seeing someone. For a start, I don't want to be an alcoholic, like my mother, and barely drink, and have never been drunk. For sex, I don't know, my early sex life was a mess, and I kind of regret losing my virginity with the person I did, but I sorted myself out eventually. I also kept my sexual escapades away from my family. I think 16 is a bit young, but I hope when my kids do start having sex, it's for the right reasons, although I'm fully aware that kids often don't want to discuss that sort of thing with their parents. I don't want them end up like my cousin, pregnant at 16. Although, if their particular experience is like mine and I suppose yours, pregnancy isn't a possibility. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted August 15, 2016 Share Posted August 15, 2016 For a start, I don't want to be an alcoholic, like my mother, and barely drink, and have never been drunk. For sex, I don't know, my early sex life was a mess, and I kind of regret losing my virginity with the person I did, but I sorted myself out eventually. I also kept my sexual escapades away from my family. I think 16 is a bit young, but I hope when my kids do start having sex, it's for the right reasons, although I'm fully aware that kids often don't want to discuss that sort of thing with their parents. I don't want them end up like my cousin, pregnant at 16. Although, if their particular experience is like mine and I suppose yours, pregnancy isn't a possibility. tbh I regret my first time too, but it seems it applies to most people. Considering at least one of the two persons having sex is having their first time and doesn't know what the fuck to do, or how to make it good for themselves, I suppose it's just the most likely outcome of the whole thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 who doesnt regret their first time i legit thought it was love lmaoooo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezzy Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 tbh I regret my first time too, but it seems it applies to most people. Considering at least one of the two persons having sex is having their first time and doesn't know what the fuck to do, or how to make it good for themselves, I suppose it's just the most likely outcome of the whole thing. Shortly after losing my virginity, I got together with a different girl, who was a virgin. We had a good relationship, for about 6 months. If I had waited a few weeks to lose it with her instead, I don't think I would have regretted it as much. I also didn't regret losing my *ahem* more classical definition of virginity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deleted35362 Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 boyfriend/girlfriend? forever alone club represent! woot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Karnage Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 never had this problem just the saying wrap it before you tap it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 never had this problem just the saying wrap it before you tap it. Is that a Dexter reference? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowofchaos Posted August 18, 2016 Share Posted August 18, 2016 I live with Belinda currently and plan to marry her when we save up enough. They're kind of too late to try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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