Psych Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 a small spanish lesson and useful dating advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 a majority of women are sub, and of them apparently a significant minority is very much turned on when they say no and you do yes. (within limits certain limits of course). Not that I'd personally do that with a girl I wasn't in a steady relationship with, though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psych Posted October 3, 2012 Author Share Posted October 3, 2012 excellen you fucking ruined my thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darros Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 "Want to play the rape game?" "No" "That's the spirit!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emeraldfox Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Psych I'm qualified. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 excellen you fucking ruined my thread goal: achieved Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inactive Account Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 a majority of women are sub, and of them apparently a significant minority is very much turned on when they say no and you do yes. (within limits certain limits of course). Not that I'd personally do that with a girl I wasn't in a steady relationship with, though. No. You don't fucking do it. Unless you've actually agreed on some alternate form of consent you don't fucking take that risk. "Apparently" my ass. Consent is important. You sit down and shut up and take no for an answer. You don't take any goddamn chances that maybe that no really was a yes if you don't know it for a fact. Bullshit like "no means yes" HURTS PEOPLE. Not sorry that I'm angry. At all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helios Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 No. You don't fucking do it. Unless you've actually agreed on some alternate form of consent you don't fucking take that risk. "Apparently" my ass. Consent is important. You sit down and shut up and take no for an answer. You don't take any goddamn chances that maybe that no really was a yes if you don't know it for a fact. Bullshit like "no means yes" HURTS PEOPLE. Not sorry that I'm angry. At all. Obviously not the significant minority Excellen was talking about Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangerine Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Now does "no means yes" hurt people more or less than dangerous menaces to society? Or could people who subscribe to that theory, in fact, be named dangerous menaces to society?! I think this is worth pondering. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 If no means yes, what means no???? (Taser???) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Just to deliver some proof to my claim: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_fantasy http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201001/womens-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean http://uk.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top10-female-sex-fantasies_3.html (note that the author is a female) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolDeath Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Yeah girls love getting raped. It's even better if you murder them afterwards (or during for some). That is all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prims Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 excellen you fucking ruined my thread "i just wanted... to post a joke i found on the internet......" - psych, as he watches his thread turn into a battleground for discussion of rape culture Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tangerine Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Just to deliver some proof to my claim: http://uk.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top10-female-sex-fantasies_3.html (note that the author is a female) Comments from that article: A REAL MALE ESCORT AVAILBLE FOR MALES AND FEMALES.CHECK MY WEBSITE. *edited out for this post* SERVICING MALES, LADIES, COUPLES, AND SINGLES THROUGH OUT INDIA, AND AVAILABLE FOR STATEWIDE AND INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL. ALSO AVAILABLE WITH A TOP PROFESSIONAL BI-FEMALE COMPANION AS A ESCORT COUPLE FOR COUPLES AND SINGLES. PHYSICAL DESCRITION Height 6'' Weight 175 pounds. Hair brown EYES hazel Size 9 inch cut. Body type muscular. CALL OR EMAIL TODAY AND LET GIGOLO ALBERT BE YOUR DREAM DATE TONIGHT! *DUE TO GIGOLO ALBERT BUSY SCHEDULE PLEASE GIVE TWO WEEKS NOTICE WHEN BOOKING ALL APPOINTMENTS. I think we all know what Excellen frequents askmen.com for. And why he won't be available tonight. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psych Posted October 3, 2012 Author Share Posted October 3, 2012 "i just wanted... to post a joke i found on the internet......" - psych, as he watches his thread turn into a battleground for discussion of rape culture Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inactive Account Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Just to deliver some proof to my claim: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_fantasy http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201001/womens-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean http://uk.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top10-female-sex-fantasies_3.html (note that the author is a female) You know what happens when you assume no means yes and it turns out it didn't? At best, you wind up doing something your partner wasn't really into. At worst, you've just committed sexual assault or rape. IS THAT A RISK YOU ARE WILLING TO TAKE? Because some women have said that they're into that, IS THAT A RISK YOU ARE WILLING TO TAKE WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW IF YOUR PARTNER ACTUALLY WANTS IT? It's one thing if you've discussed what your partner wants, and have some alternate way of signalling an actual, earnest no. BUT RISKING IT IS NOT FUCKING WORTH IT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 Comments from that article: I think we all know what Excellen frequents askmen.com for. And why he won't be available tonight. SERVICING MALES, LADIES, COUPLES, AND SINGLES THROUGH OUT INDIA Hawt I can't w8 till I go to India... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 BITCH YOU THINK I DON'T KNOW THE RISKS OF FORCING SEX WITH A GIRL shit sorry for the language anyway, if she ever decided she wanted to ruin my life or anything, she could just say I raped her and whether everyone I know wants to or not, they'd have to socially lynch me, maybe even beat me up and I'd probably be thrown into jail even though there isn't a shred of proof except for her word. Which is why I would never do it with a girl I wasn't in a steady relationship with like I already said. And I actually have sexual control, even when drunk and horny. (and although I'm definitely dom, I'm less dom than most men and don't like the idea of forced sex. I wouldn't do it unless it's with a girl I really care about) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolDeath Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 I have a very strong suspicion you're going to be getting beaten on enough throughout your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 I have a very strong suspicion you're going to be getting beaten on enough throughout your life. don't exactly know what you mean, but isn't that just plain life? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolDeath Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 It is for dumb fucks. Good to see SF still has some amazingly stupid shit though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 (edited) If you're working off guesswork to the extent you're talking about, I think you're at risk of doing something horrible to someone else, regardless of whether and how you get shat on as a result, even if you've been in a relationship with this person for some time, and it's also a bit weird that your first concern seems to be about yourself with this kinda thing. (you know, the way your second post assumes you wouldn't "make a mistake," but the girl in question would be interested in ruining your life) And I don't get the feeling you're talking about roleplay with previously agreed rules or something like that. Edited October 3, 2012 by L1049 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolDeath Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 THAT RUINS THE EXCITEMENT YOU HAVE TO PUNCH THEM IN THE FACE AND PULL THEIR PANTS DOWN THEN SHOVE YOUR PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A PENIS INTO THEIR POOPCHUTE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helios Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 This has been completely blown out of proportion, and it's kinda funny really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted October 3, 2012 Share Posted October 3, 2012 If you're working off guesswork to the extent you're talking about, I think you're at risk of doing something horrible to someone else, regardless of whether and how you get shat on as a result, even if you've been in a relationship with this person for some time, and it's also a bit weird that your first concern seems to be about yourself with this kinda thing. (you know, the way your second post assumes you wouldn't "make a mistake," but the girl in question would be interested in ruining your life) And I don't get the feeling you're talking about roleplay with previously agreed rules or something like that. You're missing the thought behind my post in reaction to kdanger. She was staying superficial, so I decided to stay superficial as well. In all of it's actuality I don't see myself feeling anything but crippling guilt after forcing sex with a girl and I'd probably be too ashamed to look her in the eye. I suppose I won't ever have as much control over my sexual urges as women do, but that doesn't mean I'm completely without defense mechanisms either. Also to be honest I wasn't quite sure what I meant to say with my first post other than "no means no" is really a grey, highly confusing area you will want to spend time thinking and/or arguing about to try and figure out where you stand in it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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