Baldrick Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 But what if they ask you not to spray them with pepper spray? If you do, you will be just like them...! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psych Posted October 4, 2012 Author Share Posted October 4, 2012 "i just wanted... to post a joke i found on the internet......" - psych, as he watches his thread turn into a battleground for discussion of rape culture Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baldrick Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 But what if they ask you not to spray them with pepper spray? If you do, you will be just like them...! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esau of Isaac Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 No. You don't fucking do it. Unless you've actually agreed on some alternate form of consent you don't fucking take that risk. "Apparently" my ass. Consent is important. You sit down and shut up and take no for an answer. You don't take any goddamn chances that maybe that no really was a yes if you don't know it for a fact. Bullshit like "no means yes" HURTS PEOPLE. Not sorry that I'm angry. At all. Excellen expressed it poorly, but depending on the person some "no"s are seriously anything but. Not in a majority of the time for such a person, but it's pretty easy to tell when such a person is being serious or not. It shouldn't need explanation, I guess, but I think if you've been in a relationship you have probably already been in situations where the verbal statement is entirely different from what they're really trying to say, or what they really feel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 But what if they ask you not to spray them with pepper spray? If you do, you will be just like them...! Yes obviously those two things can be compared perfectly~! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ether Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 Can we just agree that no means no unless designated safe words are a thing, or something? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baldrick Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 Yes obviously those two things can be compared perfectly~! Of course, and it's not hypocritical on their part at all! Can we just agree that no means no unless designated safe words are a thing, or something? What if your safe word is "yes"? Then yes means no, therefore no means yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Integrity Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 What if your safe word is "yes"? Then yes means no, therefore no means yes. UP IS DOWN BLACK IS LEFT THE CAPITAL OF IDAHO IS DENMARK Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 It was always Denmark. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rehab Posted October 4, 2012 Share Posted October 4, 2012 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Of course, and it's not hypocritical on their part at all! Ummm that kinda looked like a fail at sarcastically agreeing with me x3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Of course, and it's not hypocritical on their part at all! i don't think you can compare rape to pepper spraying a rapist unless you're a fucking nutjob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrashGordon94 Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Can we just agree that no means no unless designated safe words are a thing, or something? That works. i don't think you can compare rape to pepper spraying a rapist unless you're a fucking nutjob I think Baldo was being sarcastic or facetious. If he's not, then you're absolutely 100% correct. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baldrick Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 Ummm that kinda looked like a fail at sarcastically agreeing with me x3 Well I don't actually think what I said, Crash was on the money. Sometimes I say things to mock people who take ftff threads seriously. i don't think you can compare rape to pepper spraying a rapist unless you're a fucking nutjob Yes, I know one inflicts significant psychological trauma and the other can't reasonably compare, but the rapist deserved it so it all evens out. See what I mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rehab Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 What can I say? I'm so puny they wouldn't believe I'd be any problem ;~; Not even I would!! Keep secured a black leather belt that you don't actually need to hold your pants up, then if somebody requires a firm answer in the negatory, use it to bonk them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 (edited) Well I don't actually think what I said, Crash was on the money. Sometimes I say things to mock people who take ftff threads seriously. Once somebody turns it into a serious conversation (that can't be helped when serious topics get brought up to begin with, no matter how jokingly it gets brought up) then everyone else starts taking it seriously as well. And of course on the internet you can't really tell a difference~ There's no rule in FFtF that everything said in here has to be a joke or else majority of the internet would've been banned by now That still doesn't relate to what I was talking about though... It changes nothing XD It looks like your wording just failed on what message you were trying to get across x3 Keep secured a black leather belt that you don't actually need to hold your pants up, then if somebody requires a firm answer in the negatory, use it to bonk them Yaaaay~ Edited October 5, 2012 by Freohr Datia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted October 5, 2012 Share Posted October 5, 2012 UP IS DOWN BLACK IS LEFT THE CAPITAL OF IDAHO IS DENMARK Can a capital have a capital? I mean like, could we make it so that Washington DC was in Maryland and Maryland was the capital state of the US w/ Washington DC being the capital city. Or is ile de france could be considered the capital province (or whatever) of France. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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