Junkhead Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 ...By a guy. It was my friend's birthday last night, and this guy wouldn't stop bugging me. It was quite annoying and half-flattering (Half because I was continously being complimented by a guy and not a woman). Some of my other male friends got kind of hit on as well, but mostly me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B00TE Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 I've had that happen. Just say thanks/that's flattering and tell 'em you don't swing that way. Unless they're REALLY persistent, they should back off. Unless you did do that and he just kept coming onto you, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psych Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 soul just accept who you are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted January 20, 2013 Author Share Posted January 20, 2013 I've had that happen. Just say thanks/that's flattering and tell 'em you don't swing that way. Unless they're REALLY persistent, they should back off. Unless you did do that and he just kept coming onto you, He knew I was heterosexual. In fact, he says "I like you because you're so hetero!". A friend of mine was actually playing along and doin the same to him and the guy said he was "scared" because he was being too direct, and that he doesn't like homosexual men because they're too femenine. soul just accept who you are You first, Psych. Go on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
B00TE Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 Huh. That's certainly odd. o_o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 It happens Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 soul you're sooooooooooooo cute >~< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Florete Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 First time? You will never understand my pain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junkhead Posted January 20, 2013 Author Share Posted January 20, 2013 Isn't it normal for women to be hit on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightmare Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 First time? You will never understand my pain. Show-off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 (edited) Did u evr get hit on by a coute gurl and feel disgusted. nd it wuz ur first tiem? And then you think maybe it wasn't your first, but you don't know. Later on, you figure you weren't even being hit on anyway. Gay Edited January 20, 2013 by Mouse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inactive Account Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 Isn't it normal for women to be hit on? The fact that it happens more frequently doesn't make it less obnoxious to have to deal with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buttmuncher.ops Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 you should have pulled a counter reversal http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaaUMOaNshs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrhesia Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 I almost got my first kiss from a man. ... Almost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Birdy Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 The fact that it happens more frequently doesn't make it less obnoxious to have to deal with. Oh yeah, women have it so hard. [/sarcasm] Alright, I know it can be a pain, especially if they're too persistent. (i.e. still comong on to you after blowing them on) But come on, most guys will gladly change scenario's (Hunter --> Hunted). The suspense of always being expected to act first on basically everything, while some people love it, most of us hate it. I'm used to it now and I'm not too fussed about the occasional rejection, but it really held me back a few years ago while later hearing that she really liked me and wish I had come on to her. Women really just need to be short, or look annoyed or give some other - subtle or not - hint as to if they're interested or not. I know this sounds a lot like stereotyping, and no, of course this isn't true in all cases, but for a great majority the point still stands I believe. Not trying to hiyack this topic or anything, but how do you guys/girls look at this? Also, as for the posters case, if you made it clear you're not interested, he's kind of a douche to be honest... And I guess he's not a fan of the stereotype gay person, which is perfectly understandable. I actually have been in this situation once in my life, though I didn't know it until one of his girl friends said he like me and was flirting with me. I was like.... that was flirting? xD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aizenberg Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 and you were worried about not being pretty enough Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iridium Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 I'll trade you. He sounds annoying, but it's better than nothing. Meanwhile, I've got, like, all of the women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Psych Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 soul you were born this way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 I know this sounds a lot like stereotyping, and no, of course this isn't true in all cases, but for a great majority the point still stands I believe. Not trying to hiyack this topic or anything, but how do you guys/girls look at this? Hyuck hyuck hyuck hyuck hyuck. 121 The Three BeggarsThough to my feathers in the wet, I have stood here from break of day. I have not found a thing to eat, For only rubbish comes my way. Am I to live on lebeen-lone?' Muttered the old crane of Gort. "For all my pains on lebeen-lone?' King Guaire walked amid his court The palace-yard and river-side And there to three old beggars said, "You that have wandered far and wide Can ravel out what's in my head. Do men who least desire get most, Or get the most who most desire?' A beggar said, "They get the most Whom man or devil cannot tire, And what could make their muscles taut Unless desire had made them so?' But Guaire laughed with secret thought, "If that be true as it seems true, One of you three is a rich man, For he shall have a thousand pounds Who is first asleep, if but he can Sleep before the third noon sounds." And thereon, merry as a bird With his old thoughts, King Guaire went From river-side and palace-yard And left them to their argument. "And if I win,' one beggar said, 'Though I am old I shall persuade A pretty girl to share my bed'; The second: "I shall learn a trade'; The third: "I'll hurry' to the course Among the other gentlemen, And lay it all upon a horse'; The second: "I have thought again: A farmer has more dignity.' One to another sighed and cried: The exorbitant dreams of beggary. That idleness had borne to pride, Sang through their teeth from noon to noon; And when the sccond twilight brought The frenzy of the beggars' moon None closed his blood-shot eyes but sought To keep his fellows from their sleep; All shouted till their anger grew And they were whirling in a heap. They mauled and bit the whole night through; They mauled and bit till the day shone; They mauled and bit through all that day And till another night had gone, Or if they made a moment's stay They sat upon their heels to rail,, And when old Guaire came and stood Before the three to end this tale, They were commingling lice and blood "Time's up,' he cried, and all the three With blood-shot eyes upon him stared. "Time's up,' he eried, and all the three Fell down upon the dust and snored. `Maybe I shall be lucky yet, Now they are silent,' said the crane. `Though to my feathers in the wet I've stood as I were made of stone And seen the rubbish run about, It's certain there are trout somewhere And maybe I shall take a trout but I do not seem to care.' King "Guaire" always sounded like "King Gruyere" to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Makaze Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 Seven females and three males have hit on me. Three of them were underage. I think they can smell bisexuality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 Wah Well thankfully I've never been hit on by girls... But there was this one guy that was a huge flirt and back then I was too stupid to realize that while he was flirting he just did it because he liked my shy reactions and he could tell I liked him... Then when I quit liking him he realized I didn't react to him anymore he started to leave me alone... Because of him I became afraid of flirts and would get turned off by any other flirts I came across *stares at Integrity* >_> because for all I knew they only do it for attention or because they like the reactions they get... but also it seems so manipulative to me, if only because I fall for it so easily!! Then there's the creep that hit on me... Thankfully I won't have to worry about those anymore though because Integ's not as bad as the flirts I'm used to and (as far as I know GASAP) he's not a creep either~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 (edited) There was a guy back in high school who used to come and bother me during science and I don't even know him I ignored him for the most part but made it pretty obvious that I am very much not interested but he just kept on coming during lab breaks If it weren't for it being in school and me caring about not having a record I'd probably have thrown a desk at him or something It was really fucking annoying Now that I think about it was a chem lab I could've threatened him with the premise of explosive chemicals and it would've ben pretty funny I mean I was the top of my chem class making him believe that I can easily whip up something really explosive shouldn't be hard Edited January 20, 2013 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eclipse Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 You're allowed to complain when the men that hit on you are old enough to be your father. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 Now that I think about it was a chem lab I could've threatened him with the premise of explosive chemicals and it would've ben pretty funnyI mean I was the top of my chem class making him believe that I can easily whip up something really explosive shouldn't be hard EVERY chem student talks about liking chem because of explosions (or so it feels like it). I know someone who works making pickles now, I think that's shitloads more scary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thor Odinson Posted January 20, 2013 Share Posted January 20, 2013 (edited) My 10th grade chem teacher was a pyromaniac to the extent that the smoke alarms are disabled in her room because of the amount of explosions that went on and it was the best class ever she had a reputation for it too some of my classmates made miniature bonfires on their desks and nobody gave a fuck But I can't go back and visit her anymore 'cuz she retired But she was one of my favourite teacher in high school oh man Edited January 20, 2013 by Thor Odinson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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