Stargirl Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Yeah, I tend to hold grudges. It's pretty easy for me to drop them with some basic communication, so I'm only really holding on to resentment for people I will likely never see again. I am aware that this is probably unhealthy. All of this. And I really don't want to... ;~; Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Always. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nobody Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 I do but i pretend i don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Makaze Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 No. There are a few outliers. The kinds of people I would kill if given the chance. But for just about everything else I am very forgiving. Even up to murder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Esme Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 crawling in my skiiiinnnnnn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loki Laufeyson Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 crawling in my skiiiinnnnnn <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix Wright Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 (edited) literally takes 2 much energy for grudges Edited February 12, 2015 by Phoenix Wright Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dijon Mustard Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 crawling in my skiiiinnnnnn i used to underestimate the edginess of that song because i thought he was just saying "these words they will not hear" instead of "these wooooouuuunds they wiiiiiiillllll not hee-aaallllllll." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ownagepuffs Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 I'm fond of forgive but do not forget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ϲharlie Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrostyFireMage Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 I don't really hold onto grudges. They really aren't worth the time or energy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 (edited) why everyone saying they cost time and energy as the reason they don't hold grudges when they really don't cost anything but are just straight up unhealthy Edited February 12, 2015 by fuccboi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
riariadne Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soledai Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 No, I don't normally hold grudges... due to how long I know I can hold one and not really being worth the time. Addendum: When I do, I don't sit around sharpening my knives, so to speak, it's more like, 'oh there's that person I hate/dislike' and usually carry on. Making the superficial banter if needed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrostyFireMage Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 I usually treat people that I've been mad at with apathy mostly. I try to avoid being passive-aggressive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eclipse Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Do you want to find out? It really depends on what happened, how, why, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightmare Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 why everyone saying they cost time and energy as the reason they don't hold grudges when they really don't cost anything but are just straight up unhealthy They do tend to kind of tire you out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 They do tend to kind of tire you out. Guess i wouldnt know then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nightmare Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Guess i wouldnt know then wow we got a saint here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 :angel: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fleece Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 if the offense was bad enough then ya ngl though I don't take it to obsessive unhealthy levels or think about it constantly like its usually seem to be percieved as-- its just after years of unfair treatment and having people try to throw it back and make you look like the aggressor or some other bs tactic I learned that some people just aren't worth forgiving like honestly I don't need to give them that benefit in order for me to move on \o/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Interest Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 (edited) why everyone saying they cost time and energy as the reason they don't hold grudges when they really don't cost anything but are just straight up unhealthy That depends. It costs a lot of time and energy to haul all that gasoline to the Westboro Baptist Church... (For the record, NSA, I don't actually want to burn down the damn church. It's probably done more for gay rights than any other movement.) Edited February 12, 2015 by Interest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MacLovin Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 not worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrostyFireMage Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 There's also the benefit of knowing you aren't giving them the satisfaction of realizing they upset you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Passionfruit Cappuccino Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Nah. Usually when i get upset at someone, i go to bed and get up the next day windering why i was so mad at the said person, and just sorta forget all about the past events before i can develop a grudge for them However, there are still exceptions. Some people just piss me off too much :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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