FrostyFireMage Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 out of curiosity have you actually done this? No Obviously because I don't want legions of admirers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Parrhesia Posted March 18, 2015 Author Share Posted March 18, 2015 The perfect place to deliver your letter is by stuffing it inside the horse's head you put in their bed while they sleep imo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Person123 Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Make sure the horse head has a bow on it. This is pivotal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Specta Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 and przewalski wild horses provide the most romantic heads, being endangered. your love interest will be powerless to your willingness to assist in the extinction of a species just for them! d'aw Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) Dont be cheesy, dont be stupid, and especially dont send a fucking letter (lmfao). Just be confident (THIS IS IMPORTANT) and a likable person (which you are) and ask them out. THEN you can send a letter with a date and time and a fedora so she shows up looking classy Edited March 18, 2015 by fuccboi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
peener weener Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Be a Real People who is not an Internet People and if you get rejected send her a letter making very clear how mildly upset you are and how girls dont like nice guys like yoi and theyre all sluts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excellen Browning Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) I honestly never confessed my feelings. I always just found the right moment to start kissing, I guess. (or to get kissed, sometimes) Edited March 18, 2015 by Excellen Browning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheEnd Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) like this Edited March 18, 2015 by TravelingElder Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) so how'd it go cici~~ Confidence is important. Just be confident (THIS IS IMPORTANT) This this this this this I..... idk how to offer advice on asking out because mine didn't ask me out >u> But in a way he did confess I guess? Because he'd be all "you are too cute and I am going to make you fall for me" which back then really scared me but that's because I'm paranoid ^o^ But I guess a thing to not do is say "I am going to make you fall for me"~! E-even though he succeeded at that... BUT BUT BUT idk how many people are like this but I'm only comfortable being asked out by someone after I've gotten to know them really well because I really don't like to risk any heartbreak :c So if there are lots of people like me... what you SHOULDN'T do (though to someone like me this sounds like a given) is ask somebody out when you've only known each other for a few days. That's what somebody did to me once... And even though I was already thinking "h-he's kinda cute~" while I was flattered I got a little intimidated by that and said "why don't we wait to get to know each other better?" And then we did and then I found out he was definitely not for me and so I said "no thanks" Flirtiness can be real flattering imo... for the most part. Because again, I'm paranoid and a flirty guy kept toying with me in the past when he really felt nothing for me, once I realized that I became afraid of flirts. So when Integrity was a huge flirt it scared me too~ BUT eventually as we bonded more and more, as he grew on me and I trusted him more it just seemed real flattering~~ Which helped him grow on me QUICKER I have no clue if what happened to me had the most successful methods out there... But given all that (IN CONCLUSION TO THIS ESSAY) I'd say definitely be confident, make sure you two have been given time to get to know each other (al-although this is more of a method to stay together than to get together, I guess...), and don't be afraid to be a flirt. Just as long as you aren't too overbearing on it, I think... (oh and Integrity's mistake was that he flirts with everybody, so once I started to fall for him I became uncertain if he really MEANT anything he said to me because he flirted with everybody else too >u>) Edited March 18, 2015 by Freohr Datia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) I thought he wasn't asking for advice. Or was that just a ploy to see who has the linguistic skills necessary to pick out a suitable mate. Clever. Edited March 18, 2015 by Ein Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) Well maybe I'm getting confused as usual~ Like I saw him say he wasn't asking for advice but... I didn't know that meant we weren't supposed to give advice ^o^ Edited March 18, 2015 by Freohr Datia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Just dont say anything, the feelings will usually fade and you will be left an emotionless husk with a deadened heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Just dont say anything, the feelings will usually fade and you will be left an emotionless husk with a deadened heart. Best solution. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Original Alear Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Best solution. it has worked for me more than once! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MacLovin Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) kidnap them, and sedate them while you confess your love. in reality, it depends on the situation tho. Edited March 18, 2015 by Howard the Duck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErrantDShepherd Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 kidnap them, and sedate them while you confess your love. in reality, it depends on the situation tho. ...yes, yes... Depends on the situation... *calls the cops* 0_0 ...that horse-head plot, clearly best confession to a murder. Though you could also do a Giraffe's head just to be different and let them know "I have loved you for so long..." or "I love you LONG time :O" That is interesting Fre... I would say the waiting on asking out on a date thing really depends on how outgoing both you and the person in question are. Like, it depends if they seem into you, not just friendly, but if I remember correctly my personal story with ex-serious GF and lovely awesome person I vowed to spend the rest of my life with, was we got to talking, flirting at some get together, started talking to each other on Facebook and set up a first date after a couple days talking to each other with obvious interest/flirting... First date with both went well, and yeah we went from there, but went into both not overhyping it or over analaysing or over reacting... Usually confident but casual, not over casual but you know... Not way too invested... Is the way to go from personal experience and observation. ...but hey, I'm no freaking love guru, ymmv. ;p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sentacotus Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Well first you gotta get that A support with them and then you can move up to S I would just confess outright don't make it lavish or long and drawn out big deal. If you need to just ask them for a moment to talk then do so but just be honest about how you feel (just don't be overly dramatic or desperate). Ask em out on a date and tell em outright then. That could work. Also keep in mind part of dating is getting to know the other person if you or she finds out they don't really like each other than move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrostyFireMage Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) you should obviously do nice things for the person you like and then get angry when you discover being nice does not entitle you to a relationship Edited March 18, 2015 by FrostyFireMage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freohr Datia Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Yeah girls want them bad boys ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tryhard Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 da truff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Specta Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Yeah girls want them bad boys ;) #biotruths Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ansem Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Yeah girls want them bad boys ;) da truff #biotruths bullshit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rr6lsTgZKAQ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ein Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 Being nice makes you a weak punk ass bitch beta. With a mustache. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErrantDShepherd Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 (edited) Yes! Be the worst Human being you can be, negging totally works and is going to result in lots of sex and non-dysfunctional relationships! @,@ Ladies love dem some Rob Ford amirite? [spoiler=Bad Boy Ford] https://postmediacanadadotcom.files.wordpress.com/2013/11/ford_nov7.jpg ...nice guys do just fine, but the bad boy attraction definitely is a thing. Guys sometimes are quite attracted to Bad Girls too... (Spent way too much time trying to be the hero for a couple girls with serious issues) But rather than nice guys finishing last its maybe more like socially awkward/shy guys have the issues? ...in which case, confidence/learning social stuff/to be less awkward can help. :) Edited March 18, 2015 by TheErrantShepherd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Makaze Posted March 18, 2015 Share Posted March 18, 2015 This this this this this I..... idk how to offer advice on asking out because mine didn't ask me out >u> But in a way he did confess I guess? Because he'd be all "you are too cute and I am going to make you fall for me" which back then really scared me but that's because I'm paranoid ^o^ But I guess a thing to not do is say "I am going to make you fall for me"~! E-even though he succeeded at that... I did that too... How strange. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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